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I agree. It's all in how you use it. That goes for "the smart" as well as "the rich".
Okay. Cool.
Now let's talk about "the dumb" and "the poor", and I guess the "average" too.
And understand that I'm not a bleeding heart in any way when it comes to them.
It is my opinion that the world needs fry chefs and sump pump cleaner up'ers and middle management as much as it needs Army SF NCOs and Wall Street magnates.
So I don't think the fact that someone is poor, dumb, or both, necessarially entitles them to anything or necessarially requires any kind of involvment or sacrifice on my part.
But let's be honest here.
Some people, many if not most people, who are poor end up poor by virtue of having been dealt a pretty lousy hand in life.
While I'm perfectly willing to concede that a naturally intellectually gifted kid born to a dirt poor, abusive, alcoholic, disabled father in a tenement appartment building in Jersey City, NJ can, against all odds and theoretically, apply his natural smarts and rise up to the C Suite of a Fortune 500 company, the chances of anyone successfully doing so are incredibly slim.
That isn't the "American Dream" we're talking about there. That's an "American Miracle".
For most people the real "American Dream" is the idea that you're not born into any artificially defined class or caste and through hard work and perseverence you can rise a bit higher in the world than your father did and provide for your children a little better than your father provided for you.
We're not defined by our family name but our families may have more impact on our eventual "success" in life than any other factor.
There have been studiees done which demonstrate, pretty conclusively in my opinion, that a kid raised in a home where a couple hundred books are present will attain 2.5 years more education than a child born in a home with with few or no books.
2.5 years is the difference between an associates degree and a bachelors degree, or a bachelors degree and a graduate degree, or in the other direction the difference between a high school diploma and a GED (maybe).
I don't need to tell you how income disparity correlates to educational disparity in America (or at least I hope I don't).
Now obviously a kid probably isn't going to read several hundred of his parent's books, but that's not really the point that you want to take away from this.
What is, is the fact that parents who have enough intellectual curiosity to own several hundred books and who have a desire to develop their minds through reading pass those traits along to their kids.
And even when you've got an intellectually able kid, who has been raised to appreciate education and to be acedemically curious, and to go ahead and reach for that extra couple years of education, there are SOOOOO many factors that comee into play that make all the difference in the world between eventually becoming an economic success story and an "also ran".
Do you take the right elective that stimulates the right curiosity? Do you hook up with the right mentor who guides you on your path? Do you accept the right internship, in the right company, where you're able to forge productive relationships that allow you to set yourself apart from the pack? Does the right manager trust you with the right account or project that really allows you to wow the right people and really make a name for yourself?
It can go on, and on, and on...
I've read numerous biographies and autobiographies of military generals, major politicians, astronauts, heads of industry, and numerous other classes of "great men", and almost without exception they all credit other people's involvment as being instrumental or responsible to some greater or lesser degree for their own success.
So while it might be pretty common that the absolute dumbest people rarely find success, I don't buy for a minute that poor people are always poor because they're dumb.