It's hilarious to watch you throw a fit and whine that Hitler
had to be a socialist because he met certain criteria, yet complain that I'm the one trying to force a definition of socialism.
Socialism does not mean big government, nor is subverting corporate interests to national interests make someone a socialist. Right wing conservative monarchs did the same thing throughout European history, but no one in their right mind would call Bismark or the Kaiser a socialist, because it's demonstrably not true.
For the record, this is what Hitler did to an actual socialist in his ranks:
"By the early 1930s Strasser was head of the Nazi political organization and second only to Hitler in power and popularity. As leader of the party’s left wing, however, he opposed Hitler’s courting of big business as well as his anti-Semitism and instead favoured radical social reforms along socialist lines. He finally resigned his party offices in 1932. Hitler was able to avert large-scale losses in membership after Strasser’s defection, and, after Hitler’s accession to the chancellorship, Strasser lost almost all of his influence. He was murdered on Hitler’s orders during the [Ernst] Röhm purge of 1934."
And as for Nazi ideology, this sums it up clearly"
"The ‘National Socialists’ wanted to unite the two political camps of left and right into which, they argued, the Jews had manipulated the German nation. The basis for this was to be the idea of race. This was light years removed from the class-based ideology of socialism. By presenting itself as a ‘movement’, National Socialism, like the labour movement, advertised its opposition to conventional politics and its intention to subvert and ultimately overthrow the system within which it was initially forced to work. By replacing class with race, and the dictatorship of the proletariat with the dictatorship of the leader, Nazism reversed the usual terms of socialist ideology."
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The Coming of the Third Reich by Richard Evans
Again, Nazi ideology was inspired by Bismark and Spengler, two very right wing figures. Until you can refute that you have nothing.
Trying to argue that since the government guided economic policy it therefore had to be a socialist country just showcases how little you understand of European political history and how limited your grasp of the socialist ideology is.
And no, the Nazis did not establish socialism by stealth. Their economic policies, which were always subverted to military expansionism, were very clearly laid out.
If you want to know the actual socialists in Germany, look at the Social Democratic Party; you know, the ones that ran against Hitler.
Lastly, you fundamentally don't understand the power structure of Nazi Germany. Hitler wielded supreme power, but he very rarely ever exercised it, mostly because he did not care to or didn't understand it. The Nazi economy was ran by a small group of elitists and industrialists who openly cooperated with each other.