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Is there any sexual act or function which simply revolts you? I'm not looking for the overtly obvious here (fecalphilia, etca), but rather things which are actually somewhat mainstream that simply happen not to be your cup of tea. I'm not looking for "gay people are icky" type responses either, as we all know that wouldn't send this thread anywhere at all productive.

It has to be something in line with your own particular orientation.

Given the above criteria, what, if anything, about sex in all of its forms just makes you crinkle your nose in disgust on an instinctual level?

To start off with, I've got to say, I really just don't see the point of "fisting" at all. It might be fun once or twice, and only once or twice, in sort of a "let's drive our car through a beautiful antique shop full of priceless china at 50 mph just to see what happens" kind of way.

However, once you've wrecked up the place, what are you ultimately left with? A woman you'll be hard pressed to satisfy using natural means, and who likely won't even be able to satisfy you given how loose she's probably become?

Yea... No thanks. Any woman who can casually insert items the size of my forearm into herself probably isn't going to be a lot of fun between the sheets when it comes to using more bog-standard instruments.

On the bright side though, I'm sure childbirth's going to be a breeze. :lamo

Anyone else have one?
 

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Is there any sexual act or function which simply revolts you? I'm not looking for the overtly obvious here (fecalphilia, etca), but rather things which are actually somewhat mainstream that simply happen not to be your cup of tea. I'm not looking for "gay people are icky" type responses either, as we all know that wouldn't send this thread anywhere at all productive.

It has to be something in line with your own particular orientation.

Given the above criteria, what, if anything, about sex in all of its forms just makes you crinkle your nose in disgust on an instinctual level?

To start off with, I've got to say, I really just don't see the point of "fisting" at all. It might be fun once or twice, and only once or twice, in sort of a "let's drive our car through a beautiful antique shop full of priceless china at 50 mph just to see what happens" kind of way.

However, once you've wrecked up the place, what are you ultimately left with? A woman you'll be hard pressed to satisfy using natural means, and who likely won't even be able to satisfy you given how loose she's probably become?

Yea... No thanks. Any woman who can casually insert items the size of my forearm into herself probably isn't going to be a lot of fun between the sheets when it comes to using more bog-standard instruments.

On the bright side though, I'm sure childbirth's going to be a breeze. :lamo

Anyone else have one?
Fisting is mainstream? I must be using the old version of the Internet again.
 

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Fisting is mainstream? I must be using the old version of the Internet again.
In comparison to something like two girls one cup, absolutely.

The argument doesn't only apply to fisting either, but oversized toys as well.
 
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Is there any sexual act or function which simply revolts you? I'm not looking for the overtly obvious here (fecalphilia, etca), but rather things which are actually somewhat mainstream that simply happen not to be your cup of tea. I'm not looking for "gay people are icky" type responses either, as we all know that wouldn't send this thread anywhere at all productive.

It has to be something in line with your own particular orientation.

Given the above criteria, what, if anything, about sex in all of its forms just makes you crinkle your nose in disgust on an instinctual level?

To start off with, I've got to say, I really just don't see the point of "fisting" at all. It might be fun once or twice, and only once or twice, in sort of a "let's drive our car through a beautiful antique shop full of priceless china at 50 mph just to see what happens" kind of way.

However, once you've wrecked up the place, what are you ultimately left with? A woman you'll be hard pressed to satisfy using natural means, and who likely won't even be able to satisfy you given how loose she's probably become?

Yea... No thanks. Any woman who can casually insert items the size of my forearm into herself probably isn't going to be a lot of fun between the sheets when it comes to using more bog-standard instruments.

On the bright side though, I'm sure childbirth's going to be a breeze. :lamo

Anyone else have one?
I'm so disappointed. I thought you were talking about Spuddy.
 

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Ain't sticking MY precious weenie in any hole with TEETH in it.

never understood why other men ENJOY that.

Is it a domination thrill, seeing someone before you on their knees?

i'll go down on a woman to please her, but willie wants a vagina!
 

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Is there any sexual act or function which simply revolts you? I'm not looking for the overtly obvious here (fecalphilia, etca), but rather things which are actually somewhat mainstream that simply happen not to be your cup of tea. I'm not looking for "gay people are icky" type responses either, as we all know that wouldn't send this thread anywhere at all productive.

It has to be something in line with your own particular orientation.

Given the above criteria, what, if anything, about sex in all of its forms just makes you crinkle your nose in disgust on an instinctual level?

To start off with, I've got to say, I really just don't see the point of "fisting" at all. It might be fun once or twice, and only once or twice, in sort of a "let's drive our car through a beautiful antique shop full of priceless china at 50 mph just to see what happens" kind of way.

However, once you've wrecked up the place, what are you ultimately left with? A woman you'll be hard pressed to satisfy using natural means, and who likely won't even be able to satisfy you given how loose she's probably become?

Yea... No thanks. Any woman who can casually insert items the size of my forearm into herself probably isn't going to be a lot of fun between the sheets when it comes to using more bog-standard instruments.

On the bright side though, I'm sure childbirth's going to be a breeze. :lamo

Anyone else have one?
Anal sex....I've never wanted to participate in it probably never well.


Edit: The title is "grotesque and bizarre" but it seemed like you were also looking for not obvious answers. That's an answer of an act that is pretty norm now.
 

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Anal sex....I've never wanted to participate in it probably never well.


Edit: The title is "grotesque and bizarre" but it seemed like you were also looking for not obvious answers. That's an answer of an act that is pretty norm now.
Yeah. vaginas forever!
 

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In comparison to something like two girls one cup, absolutely.

The argument doesn't only applying to fisting either, but oversized toys as well.
Bronchiovaginal (and bronchioproctic) insertion (the proper name for fisting) is in that 'extreme category - like scat play and golden shower' . . .it's not mainstream. over 99% of the world's population doesn't engage in said act, nor do they want it in their porn.

The toys are more mainstream...Most like normal-sized toys.

I enjoy over sized toys, and it hasn't had a negative impact on my sex life. You make it sound like I've done some sort of permanent damage to myself, I'm a human made of flesh, not a china doll made of delicate ceramic. I won't break. I can see why people might not find it appealing for whatever reason, but that doesn't mean that, for those who do enjoy such things, it somehow has diminished all other types of sexual pleasure to the point where we must have it to get off.

My husband satisfies me plenty - no toys needed. Heck, oral is plenty satisfying, even without the digital stimulation.

Ain't sticking MY precious weenie in any hole with TEETH in it.

never understood why other men ENJOY that.

Is it a domination thrill, seeing someone before you on their knees?

i'll go down on a woman to please her, but willie wants a vagina!
Ahhh - interesting.

Maybe you just haven't had someone give you a damned good...ah - fellatio experience.

I enjoy giving - I don't feel submissive, or dominated, or dangerous to my husband in any fashion. It can be those, only if you want it to be. I do love it, though, it's a hell of a lot of fun. I don't imagine I'd find sex as enjoyable without the other bells and whistles, too.
 

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Overuse and overreliance on "toys" in general. I know a handful of couples (pretty much universally white, for some odd reason) who brag about how they are constantly shopping around for new dildos, vibrators, and the like; and the massive size of their "collections."

IMO, what those people are basically saying (without actually saying it) is that neither of their bodies are sufficient to satisfy one another in their relationship. This simply strikes me as being supremely depressing.

The other thing about it is that vibrators can have a tendency to desensitize the genitalia if they are overused, which actually means that the couples in question are probably going to wind up making their sex lives worse in the long run.

Anal sex....I've never wanted to participate in it probably never well.


Edit: The title is "grotesque and bizarre" but it seemed like you were also looking for not obvious answers. That's an answer of an act that is pretty norm now.
Honestly, anal is something which has always struck me as being better "in theory" than in practice. :lol:
 
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Ain't sticking MY precious weenie in any hole with TEETH in it.

never understood why other men ENJOY that.

Is it a domination thrill, seeing someone before you on their knees?

i'll go down on a woman to please her, but willie wants a vagina!
Trust issues?

Why men enjoy it?????? Really?????

Out of curiosity, what age range you in? or, perhaps you're a born-again or evangelical?
Is this a religious thing for you?





Something I'm not interested in trying..... "salad tossing".
 

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Overuse and overreliance on "toys" in general. I know a handful of couples (pretty much universally white, for some reason) who brag about how they are constantly shopping around for new dildos, vibrators, and the like; and the massive size of their "collections."

IMO, what those people are basically saying (without actually saying it) is that neither of their bodies are sufficient to satisfy one another in their relationship. This simply strikes me as being supremely depressing.

The other thing about it is that vibrators can have a tendency to desensitize the genitalia if they are overused, which actually means that the couples in question are probably going to wind up making their sex lives worse in the long run.



Honestly, anal is something which has always struck me as being better "in theory" than in practice. :lol:
LOL - trust me, black people use toys, too. It's not just a white thing.

I don't see why I can't have more than just my husband's penis. He uses his hands, I use toys.

Vibrators, also, do not desensitize the genitalia. Seriously - where do you get your misinformation from? You've concluded so many things that simply are not true. Perhaps this is because you - evidently - don't play with such things, nor do you have a vagina. It almost sounds like you're a bit afraid of exploring the possibilities of sex beyond Tab A into Slot B. In fact - not only am I not desensitized, but I've managed to reach a point where I can maintain an orgasm for an extended amount of time, during sex and otherwise. I've become more in tuned with my body, as he has. . . benefits all around.

My sex life is a hell of a lot of fun and very satisfying - the only problem we've run into are the side effects of his mediation and the fact that the military send him away all the time.

Oh - and I love anal sex.

But that's okay - since the age of 5 I realized I was in a completely different sexual world than the average person and only recently did many things I've always enjoy become more common with others.
 
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Anime. Getting off on cartoons. Just...weird.
 

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I enjoy over sized toys, and it hasn't had a negative impact on my sex life. You make it sound like I've done some sort of permanent damage to myself, I'm a human made of flesh, not a china doll made of delicate ceramic. I won't break. I can see why people might not find it appealing for whatever reason, but that doesn't mean that, for those who do enjoy such things, it somehow has diminished all other types of sexual pleasure to the point where we must have it to get off.
More or less permanent lack of "tightness" after childbirth is a pretty common complaint. I kind of doubt that frequent use of oversized dildos wouldn't have a somewhat similar effect (though, arguably, less pronounced).

I obviously cannot really speak to your sex life, and I'm sure that there are probably exercises women can do to counter act this. However, it still strikes me as being something that I'd really rather not mess around with in the first place.

Vibrators, also, do not desensitize the genitalia. Seriously - where do you get your misinformation from? You've concluded so many things that simply are not true.
It's a fairly common complaint amongst pornographic actresses.

It also makes a certain degree of sense given what I know about how my own anatomy works. If I have been "whacking off" a lot, and try to have regular vaginal intercourse with a woman, it often isn't as satisfying. It will also take forever to actually reach the point of orgasm.

The member simply isn't as sensitive as it would be otherwise. I don't see why frequent application of high power vibrating instruments to the clitoris couldn't have a similar effect.
 
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Anime. Getting off on cartoons. Just...weird.
LOL - Tendril Sex. I've seen a lot of things, that was the weirdest. I don't go for the alien visualizations.

More or less permanent lack of "tightness" after childbirth is a pretty common complaint. I kind of doubt that frequent use of oversized dildos wouldn't have a somewhat similar effect (though, arguably, less pronounced).

I obviously cannot really speak to your sex life, and I'm sure that there are probably exercises women can do to counter act this. However, it still strikes as being something that I'd really rather not mess around with in the first place.

t's a fairly common complaint amongst pornographic actresses.

It also makes a certain degree of sense given what I know about how my own anatomy works. If I have been "whacking off" a lot, and try to have sex with a woman, it often isn't as satisfying. It will also take forever to actually reach the point of orgasm.

The member simply isn't as sensitive as it would be otherwise. I don't see why frequent application of high power vibrating instruments to the clitoris couldn't have a similar effect.
I've had four children - Kegals fixed any 'tightness' issues, as does just general fitness during pregnancy.

The problem MOST women tend to have is pain with sex afterward - extreme situations are considered a medical condition that can be overcome with therapy and relaxation techniques.

I full believe 'to each their own' - but it doesn't mean someone else is unfulfilled or emotionally cut off, or deformed, or permanently 'broken' somehow. It just means some like it, others don't.

On the other hand, though, my husband isn't 'small' - so maybe the real point is that he's not average. Sex use to be excruciatingly painful sometimes, to the point where I'd avoid it (and that was after having a few kids) - and now it's not.

So - I don't know, if he was small, maybe I'd notice . . . and for those few guys, maybe that's the issue.

For the porno chicks - I don't know what to say, only that maybe forcing sex when you're not actually turned on (because trust me, it's a job, not a pleasure for them) does something. I don't have those issues, so I can't say much beyond that. I have sex when I'm turned on - as it's supposed to be. My sex without toys far outnumbers the times we have sex with other things involved - but it's all fun in the end.
 
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LOL - Tendril Sex. I've seen a lot of things, that was the weirdest. I don't go for the alien visualizations.



I've had four children - Kegals fixed any 'tightness' issues, as does just general fitness during pregnancy.

The problem MOST women tend to have is pain with sex afterward - extreme situations are considered a medical condition that can be overcome with therapy and relaxation techniques.

I full believe 'to each their own' - but it doesn't mean someone else is unfulfilled or emotionally cut off, or deformed, or permanently 'broken' somehow. It just means some like it, others don't.

On the other hand, though, my husband isn't 'small' - so maybe the real point is that he's not average. Sex use to be excruciatingly painful sometimes, to the point where I'd avoid it (and that was after having a few kids) - and now it's not.

So - I don't know, if he was small, maybe I'd notice . . . and for those few guys, maybe that's the issue.

For the porno chicks - I don't know what to say, only that maybe forcing sex when you're not actually turned on (because trust me, it's a job, not a pleasure for them) does something. I don't have those issues, so I can't say much beyond that. I have sex when I'm turned on - as it's supposed to be. My sex without toys far outnumbers the times we have sex with other things involved - but it's all fun in the end.
I had the misfortune of having to do the General Order 1 monitoring in the ME on several occasions. It was just mind numbing the number people that would put their career at risk over anime porn of some weird creature raping a schoolgirl. I just dont get it.
 

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Yes.

Any such act that results in the conception of yet another social parasite, deliberate idiot, reprobate, pervert or any other form of Democrat.
Then obviously anal doesn't bother you.
 

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There are a number of sexual practices I have no interest in, but I've never understood why some people have to think of them as anything more than something they have no interest in.
 

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There are a number of sexual practices I have no interest in, but I've never understood why some people have to think of them as anything more than something they have no interest in.
Value judgments are inherent to the human condition. As long as one does not try to go about actively imposing their opinions upon others, I do not see what harm comes from simply discussing them.
 

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Value judgments are inherent to the human condition. As long as one does not try to go about actively imposing their opinions upon others, I do not see what harm comes from simply discussing them.
Many things are inherent to the human condition, including the ability to use reason to recognize when our emotional reactions are inappropriate.
 

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Many things are inherent to the human condition, including the ability to use reason to recognize when our emotional reactions are inappropriate.
Ummmm... You do exactly that all the time; often in the most insultingly judgmental and confrontational way possible. :screwy

No one in this thread has so far taken any kind of overtly judgmental "high horse" stance with regards to sexuality. We've simply stated what we're not into, and the reasons why.
 
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