I don't know if they're do "equal harm". I don't actually care on that. If one person slits my throat, and another person slits my throat, then puts three bullets in my chest, then burns my body...the second person did more "harm" to my body, but all that mattered was at the start they both killed me. Everything after that is simply irrelevant when it comes to my life.
As I said above, that's how I view it with my vote. If I HONESTLY feel that a person will fundamentally harm the foundational principles of the country and potentially do lasting and substantial harm to it, that puts them at 0 immediately. That puts them as low as they can possibly go, and that's where they're at. Someone being "worse" about those things doesn't take them to negative numbers, it's a scale of 0 to 100. Dead is dead; and in this case, they're metaphorically killed their chance of me supporting them when I come to that initial conclusion (unless they're able to change my mind of that conclusion).
You, as has been apparently clear from a multitude of your posts in this thread and over the past weeks/months, have no big issue with Trump, seemingly are happy to support him as the nominee, and are constantly apologizing for him and criticizing/questioning any of those that disagree. And that's fine. But no matter how much you want to delude yourself about it, your opinions don't inherently constitute "common sense" nor are they absolute or more "correct" than anyone elses.
You can go on hoping all you want. You're absolutely free to. And if you feel the way you are stating, you absolutely should cast your vote for Trump. And those who don't feel that way, and feel that he would be just as harmful to this country as a President Clinton, and see much of your arguments and contortions about who he is/what he does/what he will do as bull**** or ridiculous, will likely, and should likely, not cast their vote for him.
You seem to have missed the fact that no one in this thread is declaring Trump supporters shouldn't be voting for Trump, or their wasting their vote for going with Trump, or trying to shame them into NOT voting for Trump and to instead vote third party or something else. The only ones attempting to push, advocate, or defend those type of tactics is your towards those who won't vote for Trump.
So yes, we will just have to disagree on that.
We know what we are getting with Hillary. And I honestly have tried--especially trying to co-coach a debate team who had to promote her as the candidate--to come up with something I felt I could honestly commend her on. I came up with nothing. I just had to help the kids fabricate a tissue of lies so they would have something to argue. And I knew full well if the other side was well coached, none of those argument would hold up.
On the Trump side it was much much easier. Yes the man has done some questionable things. Yes the man can be insulting or even petty sometimes. Yes he is entirely unconventional and thoroughly politically incorrect while offering allegiance to no political party and no commitment to any ideology. But it was extremely easy to compile a list of accomplishments, skill sets, qualities, and successes that would be strong attributes to admire in a President.
In short I know what we will get with a President Clinton. I hope what we will get with a President Trump is the best that is in a man who in many ways is a very good man.