It's not the white community anymore. We have had a black and female Secretary of State, and now president. There is nothing to get out of the way. I mean there are disparities in criminal sentencing due to mainly the war on drugs and money for public schools among others. They are however a relatively small number when compared to the entire black population of the US. Institutionalized racism for all practical purposes is dead in this country. So I ask who are these "white community's" and what are they doing to hold blacks down? Seriously I don't see it. I do however see plenty of black on black crime glorified in our music, movies and TV. I do see a media that helps to greatly stigmatise black males.
What I don't see is black leaders rising to set positive role models and denouncing the established culture of welfare and promoting education as cool. We need to be teaching our young people to speak correct English, how to dress for an interview and balance a checkbook. We need to be teaching them having your pants hanging around your ass is not acceptable. We need to be teaching them how to be members of society while still embracing our culture, but being Americans first. We are not African Americans. We are Americans who are black and proud to be so. You can have pride in your heritage while still becoming a productive part of this multicultural society. My daughter is a successful Engineer here in Florida. I and my wife installed proper morals and tools to be successful. This is not hard to do, be a parent.
In the end until drugs and gang crime are addressed by more than a token feel good batch of laws, nothing will happen. As long as fatherless boys grow up not knowing what it is to be a man and girls not knowing what it is to be a real woman, all this will continue. It is no one's fault but our own as a people.
I know I sound angry and it's because I am. Before we moved here I was involved with PADS and other homeless shelters. I would go into the poorest neighborhood at the time, probably still Ford Heights Illinois to help the children and teach. I have done many things for the black community and it is not enough with so many slothful "blame whitey" blacks around me. So yes I am angry.
It's not the white community anymore. I think it is, in part not entirely. While you are right that we have black americans in positions of power it still so rare that it is considered note worthy. I would hope than someday it becomes more commonplace.
You sight the War on Drugs and the disparities in the criminal justice system and funding for schools.. don't these serve as examples of obstacles that should be obliterated? Our disagreement here may be with the numbers. I did some research for a different thread and considered the numbers to be quite significant. I will track that down and share it if you like.
Institutionalized racism for all practical purposes is dead in this country. Progress has been made yes, because laws are now in place but laws are only effective if people have the conscience to follow them. If you are racist in your heart chances are you will disregard them and being in a position to call someone out on that is a bit of a luxury.
I do however see plenty of black on black crime glorified in our music, movies and TV. I do see a media that helps to greatly stigmatise black males. Do you ever wonder why this evolves though? I mean, what made those art forms take that route?
What I don't see is black leaders rising to set positive role models and denouncing the established culture of welfare and promoting education as cool. I agree. I think you mentioned earlier that if a black americans points this out he is called an uncle tom. That is an unfortunate truth. This leads me to believe it will require a generational effort. Start with kids within communities, black leaders teaching this message and providing guidance towards different choices. When those kids grow up and raise their kids these lessons will be passed on until there is a larger population of people within the community that do not see this message from black leaders as being uncle tom like.
I and my wife installed proper morals and tools to be successful. This is not hard to do, be a parent. That's great. What kind of examples did you both have? Did your parents teach you this or did you have to learn it on your own? If you were not surrounded by this lesson from your parents then arriving at it on your own is commendable but it is also rare. Why not do something to provide kids within these communities the kind of guidance and direction they may not have at home and make breaking the cycle more common.
I don't blame you for being angry. I get it, I think. I was raised by an abusive alcoholic asshole. He had 8 daughters. Now as adults all of them, except for me, are abusive bitter alcoholics themselves. I have busted my ass helping them but because they won't take personal responsibility so they stay stuck. I think if they had had someone in their lives when they were younger to provide better lessons and guidance they would have had a better chance at breaking this cycle.