I was shocked when I first heard the word "underemployed" from a job applicant. I asked him what it meant and he said he had a degree in Business Administration and anything below administering a business meant he was underemployed. I pointed out he'd never had a job but he didn't see the point.
I have decided advertising for hiring millenials is part of the problem.
"Work for Burger Barn. The year has 8,760 hours and you'll have 6,880 hours to screw off if you work for us."
I was shocked when applicants and even new hires asked questions like, "How long will it be before I get promoted and don't have to work weekends? Will I have any problem getting two weeks off at Christmas to go skiing with my buds? Can I have a month off in the summer if I take it off without pay?" My personal favorite was the applicant who handed me a business card when he picked up the application forms. I read the card and said, "You're an attorney?" "No, that's my attorney and that's who you'll be talking to if you don't hire me." I told him to sit right down and we'd give him a call and save us all some time but he left.
I was equally shocked when a man I worked with asked me how I got my kids to leave home. His son was pushing thirty, driving a brand new Corvette, had a job but was living at home. No rent, no food bill, no health insurance meant he could have that Corvette, great vacations, and party a lot. Why should he move out? His parents let his girlfriend sleep over whenever she wanted to.
But, my biggest surprise as a cop was when people hired as police officers refused to go on calls unless they had a police officer to protect them. When I challenged one he said, "My life is worth as much as anyone else's." Absolutely true. Of course, I did point out the woman getting beaten with a club by her drunken husband wasn't getting paid $100,000 a year to protect the cop sitting down the street waiting for his cover unit. He shrugged and walked off.