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Yeah I agree and I know this thread isn't for me. But honestly, I think we think about sex way too much in this country, mostly because we try to restrict it so much. If these things were accepted than few would really notice as it would be normal.
Maybe it's not sex at all.
Or, well, maybe it's not *just* about sex.
For me it's more about body-image. . . concern about what someone thinks of my saggy tits and wrinkly cheeks. I don't want people to see how I really am (this is true in all senses, not just the most naked sense unclothed) Sex doesn't actually play into the thought seeing as how I'm married and not actually going to romp around with some dudes in the shower midst an orgy.
I think people treasure a glossy-photo version of their selves to be shown to others (heart, mind, body) rather than people seeing someone for who they really are. We want perfection but fail to achieve it and judge ourselves, and, would rather others not judge us at all.
So it boils down to insecurities - whichever way you look at it. If someone isn't secure with their body or mind, they won't let people see it without some fake covering.
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