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Men have no options as far as hair loss is concerned?
Rogaine, Just For Men, et al say otherwise, no?
Men have no options as far as hair loss is concerned?
Rogaine, Just For Men, et al say otherwise, no?
except we can do something about being fat. my husband has kept his hair buzzed closely for quite a few years, i love the look. bald can be very sexy.
I think that if you're doing it right, it shouldn't be that hard. That's what I concluded after 12 years of the most miserable marriage, ever. Some things just shouldn't be that hard.
So, when I started dating again, I looked for someone easy.
Divorce sucks!!
Divorce sucks!!
Then there's your answer right there! You did have to work at it and you're still "working" at it now by being willing to compromise.My wife and I spent about 3-4 months fighting when we first started living together. Mainly this was an adjustment period as both of us needed to change our habits to accomidate the fact that it was just a single person. Those first few months were almost always either fighting or other activities. However, she learned to be direct with me and I learned to act like it was more than just me at stake.
Commoncents said:Marriage is a constant lesson in life. Times change. People change. Values change. The willingness to adapt to change will indeed require work no matter how great your S.O. is or how great you think you are for each other IMHO. No one can predict the future all you can do is deal with it as it becomes the present.
I think it depends. I think all a successful marriage requires is (1) common interest, (2) communication, and (3) appreciation. Obviously, you either have the first or you don't - I'm not sure you can "work" on liking the same things as your significant other.Maybe its just my experience in this, but so far my marriage has been pretty much great from day 1. I haven't really had to work at it and my wife tells me that she doesn't either. We are both quite happy and don't really put any special effort into it while having an absolutely wonderful time, pretty much all the time, unless one of us is cranky due to some outside influence.
I have heard from multiple people that will outright say that there is something wrong with a marriage if you don't have to work at it. That marriage should be a challenge sometimes to keep you on your toes. Whats your opinion?