That's what I find particularly disgusting about the abortion debate in general. Everyone with a tighter timeline than you is "a religious nut job trying to turn women into cattle", and everyone with a looser timeline is a "a baby killing godless monster".
I try to keep such hyperbole out of my speech, and I'm glad you tend to do the same. Some people around here just can not stop. Joko actually called me the most radical pro-lifer on DP.... with a 12 week elective cutoff and a plethora of exceptions...
I've based my views on abortion based on the biological definition of human life. To me, if it has brain activity and a unique heart beat, it is a human being. This happens around 8 weeks. 12 weeks is my compromise (which I'm not happy about but will accept), due to the fact that many women can't know they're pregnant by 8 weeks. I don't see a 12.1 week fetus as more important than a 12 week one. I see the death of both as equally sad and horrific. However, there has to be a line drawn somewhere.
You keep bringing up how rare these abortions are, yet that argument cuts both ways. If late term elective abortions are as rare as you say they are, there's no reason to just keep it legal anyway, or to argue as passionately as you do. I don't see any benefit whatsoever to that. I'd rather focus on structuring a system so that the women who are the few exceptions are able to have the abortion after 12 weeks if there's a medical reason to do so.
We live in a society, and we've formed a government to structure and protect that society. I personally don't believe the government should have many roles, but justice is the most fundamentally important role of government. Does it effect my life when someone I don't know gets shot in the face? No, not one bit, but we still as a society expect a certain level of justice, and expect protection for those that can not protect themselves. The argument you're making, whether you intend to or not, is that I shouldn't care when someone else is murdered, because it doesn't impact my life. I think it would be hard for you to structure that statement to show less compassion for your fellow man.