OrlandoGringo
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this is so sad. it makes me wonder about the parents of the bullies.I am aware of school-aged kids committing suicide because of relentless and merciless bullying from classmates. Should bullying be criminalized? I think an argument can be made that it should be criminalized. Again, I´m talking about school-aged kids, not adults. We protect the underaged by rightfully criminalizing those who would sexually prey upon them, we protect the underaged by forbidding them from smoking or consuming alchohol. And why do we protect them? I guess we protect them in this manner because, as a society, we feel that our youth do not yet have the capacity to be able to make sound decisions on such matters. Along those lines, shouldn´t we protect our youth from the viciousness of other youth by criminzling unending bullying?
Here is a link and a copy/paste from a recent suicide by a girl in the Boston area:
2 Students Reportedly Expelled From Mass. High School After Cyber Bullying Suicide - Local News | News Articles | National News | US News - FOXNews.com
2 Students Reportedly Expelled From Mass. High School After Cyber Bullying Suicide
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
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File photo of Phoebe Prince.
A group of South Hadley, Mass., students accused of bullying a classmate who later committed suicide won't be returning to the community's high school, MyFoxBoston.com reported.
Superintendent Gus Sayer told The Boston Globe on Tuesday the school district took the problem seriously and the students "will not be returning." He would not say if they had been expelled, citing privacy concerns.
TheBostonChannel.com reported that two students accused of bullying 15-year-old Phoebe Prince were expelled from South Hadley High School.
Prince killed herself allegedly after being bullied through text messages, Facebook posts and in person.
Separately, legislation targeting school bullying cleared a legislative committee Tuesday and was sent to the Senate for its review.
It would require that each school district, charter school and all nonpublic schools develop a bullying prevention and intervention plan.
The Senate passed anti-bullying legislation last session but it never emerged for a vote in the House.
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400 parents, students and school administrators attended a cyerbullying meeting on Tuesday night. They began the day with a standing ovation for the school's principal.
Parents and students were broken into groups and had questions answered about cyber bullying and how to prevent it.
this is so sad. it makes me wonder about the parents of the bullies.
i know, sadly.Wonder no more. The parents are assholes (most of the time).
That said, criminalizing it is crazy in my opinion.
Correct, and we no longer have either one, so it must work out fine. :mrgreen:Well to bad because assault and harassment have been illegal for a very long time now, even for kids.
Well to bad because assault and harassment have been illegal for a very long time now, even for kids.
Psst, you may want to read past the first line, it'll make you less likely to make ironically ignorant responses to posts. I go on to explain that very notion.
Your personal experience in high school is anecdotal and thus entirely irrelevant. You are supporting the legalization of assault on students by other students.
If someone is actually physically beating a child up there doesn't need to be a "bullying" law in place, if you wish you could persue assult issues. If people are bullying by stealing from him, again, there's laws in place. The "harsher" forms of bullying already HAVE laws that theoritically you could use on a juvenile scale if you so wish. I don't see how creating a new law would be worth while unless you're starting to water it down to the point where if someones a dick in the lunchroom and throws an open ketchup packet at another kid across the way then he's going to be hauled off into juvenile detention.
Reading, it is your friend.
From my post you apparently didn't bother reading and just decided to idiotically knee jerk respond to:
Yep, there I am, supporting assault on other students by STATING ITS ALREADY ILLEGAL to do so.
For ****s Sakes do you actually read and think before you post at times?
At least you admit that your argument is double-speak. There might be hope for you yet.
Sorry Jerry. If you don't take the time to actually READ what you're responding to, get told to go back and read it and still fail to, and then have it shoved in your face and you still try to dance, duck, and jive instead of owning up to your own idiotic mistake in the first place there's really no point in discussing anything with you. You're not here to talk, you're here to poke and prod people for reactions. Not worth my time, you're as transparent as a window.
Bullying beyond assault should be criminalized. Bullying in schools occurs far more often then people believe. It is extremely underreported because there is often little that schools can or do do. Further, the social repercussions of a bully being "outed" with minimal consequences will often continue the bullying. A colleague of mine (and I occasionally) give talks at schools about bullying and we always find that many kids are bullied but never say anything either for fear of repercussions or because nothing is ever done. Further, most schools have policies in which even responding to the bully could net you consequences. Bullying is on the rise because of the anonymity of the internet and the "safe distance" provided by texting. IMO, criminalizing it gives enough consequences to deter some from doing it, or at the very least, makes parents aware that there will be more serious consequences than a couple of detentions or a suspension (which is not a consequence, but a vacation).
And what you'll essentially do is trade in a handful, in terms of large percentage, of kids committing suicide "because of bullying" for hundreds of individuals getting into legal trouble over acts that are essentially simply a part of growing up. I've never seen a single social group, from the lowest of low to the highest of high, not at some point ridicule, make fun of, etc someone else in some way. What constitues "bullying" and picking on? What consistutes "bullying" and "ribbing". If a group of friend continually gives one of those friends **** for say something as innocuous as being short, but they all give all their friends **** its kind of what young boys do, but that kid takes it a little too seriously...is that suddenly bullying?
While I understand the under reported nature of bullying for a variety of reasons, I think the likilyhood of the "Oh Won't Someone Think of the Children!!!!!" crowd continuing to dilude it to the point where its overly harsh and far to generalized. I think criminalizing "bullying", which is such an extremely broad term, is a very extreme action for something that ultimately is not a giant problem that could potentially have very unexpected consequences.
Words can not express how frustrated and pissed off I am at those zero-tolerance policies. I tell my boys never to hit in anger, and "if someone hits you first you can hit them back and defend yourself", but the school doesn't care. Sometimes it does matter who started it.
This was the same philosophy my dad had and the same one I plan to have should I ever have a child.
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