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Should marriage and unions be regulated by goverment?

Should marriage be regulated by goverment?

  • YaY

    Votes: 33 50.8%
  • Nay

    Votes: 26 40.0%
  • Other

    Votes: 6 9.2%

  • Total voters
    65
Why or why not?
Other:

What do you mean, exactly?

Are you asking whether the government should regulate who can get married to whom?

OR are you asking whether the government should regulate who they allow to enter into certain types of legal contracts, some of which qualify the involved individuals for tax breaks?
 

The first one. I mean all forms of marriage be they poly, monogamous, gay, straight
 
The first one. I mean all forms of marriage be they poly, monogamous, gay, straight

The government does not have the power nor capability to regulate who can get married to whom.

Since that is, at it's most basic level, simply an agreement between two persons.
 
The government does not have the power nor capability to regulate who can get married to whom.

Since that is, at it's most basic level, simply an agreement between two persons.

No actually it does. That is the only reason you can go to the courts and get married.
 

Starting in the 15th and 17th century is not "always", not by a long shot.
 

The Church for the most part just recognized the marriage, which is technically what still happens today. The couple confers the sacrament on each other, the priest merely approves that the marriage did in fact occur.
 
People really need to read, instead of just plugging what they want to hear into their brains:

And I see NO reason why the govt shouldnt be involved.
You can feel there is no reason for the govt to be involved but I have shown you the rights/responsabilities involved in legal marriage.
That is the reasons they are involved.
However even if you were admant about getting the govt out it would be a losing battle on your side because that is NEVER going to happen.
 
If the Government is going to allow people to take certain benefits (taxes, etc.) then yes. If not, then regulation isn't needed.
 
Race and sex, or they were.

Race I can see having no bearing, but different sexes is what defines marriage, therefore it is in the states interest to regulate that. I do believe that a civil contract should also be legislated for same sex couples to legally enter into a social contract, but not as a marriage.
 
Why or why not?

Regulated isn't exactly the best term, since the government has an almost nonexistent presence in marriage. The marriage certificate process exists mainly to ensure that you aren't breaking the law. No polygamy, no underaged brides (or grooms), no animals or objects, both parties want to get married, etc. I don't see a problem with that.

On the other hand, if the marriage is between two consenting adults of sound mind, and there's no prohibiting factors, then I see no reason for the government to have any say in whether those two can get married.
 

Yes there have been a few cases in the media and they were covered for hospital visits, inheritance, etc. They didnt 'age out' of those things.

And so? Who says that needs to be a 'legal' relationship? As mentioned, they can add or ignore any legal aspects that they want...on their own, cafeteria style or in packages I'm sure some legal offices will be happy to provide. If some new laws needed to be passed, they could be.

It's not like a law of physics...this stuff could be changed. But most people dont want to do so.
 

Exactly. It does not need to be a 'legal' relationship. The govt made it so.
 

Good for you.

And "reading...it's fundamental!":

 

LOL Who says? Not the thousands of legally married gay people, esp in states that voted that SSM is also defined as marriage. And SCOTUS as well.
 
Good for you.

And "reading...it's fundamental!":

Yes it is
However even if you were admant about getting the govt out it would be a losing battle on your side because that is NEVER going to happen.
 
Yes it is

So since I had already acknowledged that more than once, what was the reasoning behind your statement? Forgetfulness?
 
So since I had already acknowledged that more than once, what was the reasoning behind your statement? Forgetfulness?

Sigh this is pointless, you dont normally troll
 
LOL Who says? Not the thousands of legally married gay people, esp in states that voted that SSM is also defined as marriage. And SCOTUS as well.

I find it interesting that you quickly dismiss the historical definition of thousands of years and billions of marriages for the fad definition of the most recent court case.
 
I find it interesting that you quickly dismiss the historical definition of thousands of years and billions of marriages for the fad definition of the most recent court case.

I find it interesting that you quickly dismiss the rights and feelings and desire for marriage that gays want so badly and were denied for all those thousands of years (in most cultures).

You are talking about a definition. I'm talking about real people.
 
No actually it does. That is the only reason you can go to the courts and get married.

That's a legal marriage contract.

Marriage itself does not require any involvement of courts or churches.

For decades now (more, probably) it has been perfectly legal for gay persons to get married, but they were not able to join in a legal contract of marriage until recently.


My question is whether you're saying the government should regulate and (if they want to) prosecute two people living together and calling themselves married.

Or whether you're talking about the legal aspect of the thing.
 

1.) according to who?
2.) civil contracts that are not marriage already excist for anybody to participate in.
 
No actually it does. That is the only reason you can go to the courts and get married.

Actually it doesnt I can go get marriage right now and the government has no say :shrug:
 

You can believe what you want, but forcing those beliefs on others will not be as easy as winning a single Supreme Court case!
 
The reasons for government involvement in marriage seem terribly outdated at this point. In the past marriage was related to raising a family and government believed that it was a public good to assist families. They got special rights that unmarried did not get. And there was a need to protect women who, unprotected, paid a higher price in marriage and divorces. But now there are protections in place for adults and children both in and out of marriage.
Marriage promote income inequality as the high earners tend to marry other high earners and take advantage of tax breaks not available to unmarried people. About 30% of our income inequality is due to this.

At this point, there is no public policy advantage of giving special rights to people who are married, at the expense of the unmarried who are soon to be a majority.
 
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