As someone who is 100% pro-choice, I can tell you unequivocally that some of the people in this thread who would call themselves pro-choice would more aptly be characterized as pro-abortion. I think if they had it their way, every woman would have a doctor outside their house ready to rush in the moment a woman decides to even consider an abortion.
What so many in the pro-choice crowd, like joko and Juanita for example, don't seem to understand is the word "choice". They are so intent on arguing for abortions, they sometimes seem to forget the word choice.
Some food for thought...
I think that people who are pro-birth do tend to conveniently forget or ignore that the vast majority of conceptions are brought to full-term. And that abortion numbers are at their lowest in the country...and continue to go down because of better, more effective contraceptives...and access, and sex education.
And that in the U.S. that over 60% of abortions are performed 9 weeks and under. A 9 week fetus is as small or smaller than an kidney bean.
The balance of the majority number is about 25% 12 weeks and under.
So...we're talking about over 85% of the abortions are 12 weeks and under. The developmental stage of a 12 week fetus would yield a primal brain stem, the inability to feel pain, and the inability to be sentient or be aware of self or it's environment.
But the 20 plus week abortions only constitute 1.5% and those abortions are due to severe defects in the fetus or a major health risk to the woman.
But the thing I want to point out is "CHOICE" also includes those who bring their conceptions to full term. Given that...I support that "choice".
The rub here is "Motive regarding Choice". Pro-birth varies in opinion about allowable motives for choice in that some do make exceptions for rape, incest or the life/health of the woman. Again, that is employing "CHOICE".
And one problem I see in a lot of discussion like this is that many pro-life prefer to argue that the majority of abortions are because of sexual irresponsibility, which includes those described as women who have abortions as a substitute for birth control. Another is abortions for life conveniences.
The group that falls under "Life Conveniences" is indeed a very abstract and bears the need to employ subjective interpretation. In other words, be judgmental of a woman's "motives for her choice".
It is impossible to make a valid collective or individual judgement without knowing the full facts about individual lives of women who make the choice to abort. There are many reasons for which a woman knows that if she brings a child into this world that they can't provide. And we know that there are 10s of thousands of children in the system who will not be considered for adoption...even though they are legally adoptable. Many women do not want to produce a child of their blood and subject it to a life in which they have zero control.
I noticed in another post where you said that you love kids. That also is a "choice". So do I. In my past years I worked with high-risk children for years...and have represented children in CPS court as their Guardian ad Litem.
When CHOICE SHOULD NOT BE AN OPTION....
As a man...you should never have a choice to NOT ask a woman who you have sexual relationship with if she would have an abortion for reasons other than rape, incest, or life/health reasons. This IS YOUR responsibility as a man to ask this simple question. If her answer doesn't match your personal values...then you have serious decision to make about your relationship.
Questions to ask yourself as a man: Do I want government or other authorities controlling my reproductive rights? Would I be willing to defer my rights to my liberties as I understand them to be to governments or authorities? Would I be willing to surrender my rights to self-determination?
This is a complex issue. Having CHOICE comes with huge responsibilities and no woman takes them lightly.
Thanks...