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Does this happen to you often? I guess I live in a different world, but when you are introduced to someone, they tell you what pronouns to call them by?
I'll disagree. The "right wing" is playing defense here. It's progressives that have pushed to redefine things that have traditionally been defined based on "sex" to be defined on the now indefinable "gender." Sports participation, bathrooms, discrimination... Progressives are the ones pushing for sexualization of curriculum in schools. Progressives are ones pushing for kids coming out and transitioning at ten, eleven twelve years old.
Where you see weaponization and exploitation, I see defense.
I imagine it's bad etiquette to name names.Link to an example post of someone on here claiming there are more than 2 biological sexes.
Dawkins, Sam Harris, Michael Shermer, et al, have been saying this for a long time.
In the US the right wing has decided to weaponize and exploit the divide on all things gender identity. Because of this many democrats have reflexively taken the exact opposite position. This is the toxicity of American politics.
It's helpful to remember that the majority of people do question minors having medical interventions and whether transwomen can fairly and safely play on women's teams. This includes democrats, liberals, and progressives.
It's an incredible shame that this has become so politicized, leaving little room for any nuance on a topic that deserves and requires a lot of compassion and thoughtful conversation.
It is the LEFT that pushes ideologies of division.
mehMistreating anybody is wrong.
Laughing at the pronouns. I utterly refuse to use them. I oppose the use of "their" for "everybody," "everyone," "anybody," "anyone," "somebody", "someone," and "each" because they all mean "one." Terribly confusing for second-language speakers," and these new pronouns are also incorrect. "Their" is a plural, so again, it's incorrect and confusing. Hmmmpf, English speakers should be grateful that our language is so gender-neutral compared to other Romance languages.
I was thinking the same thing.I suspect that 95% of the posters who complain about such matters are rarely exposed to atypical gender interactions as they go about their day.
Uh, if you see someone, can't you guess his or her gender almost all the time? Failing that, why can't you say "See the person in the red shirt? Ask that person"? Of course, you can.Hyper hair splittingly anal retentive grammar nazi - "them" is correct usage when the sex of a person is unknown as in "See that person over there? Ask them if they know how to get to Yankee Stadium."
On matters of LGBTQ, Democrats push for equal rights, non-discrimination, tolerance, etc. Liberal values.
Republicans push for restricting their rights, and for discrimination based on religious beliefs, i.e intolerance.
This appears to be the opposite of what you claim.
Thank goodness you've taken up the mantle.Uh, if you see someone, can't you guess his or her gender almost all the time? Failing that, why can't you say "See the person in the red shirt? Ask that person"? Of course, you can.
And there is quite a difference between the written word and the spoken word. I admit to be very careless at times in my own speech, but there is no excuse in writing. "One" means ONE, requiring "he,""she," or "it." The goal is communication, and as I've already pointed out, carelessness is pronoun use is terribly confusing for second-language speakers.
But really, you're making excuses for carelessness or not knowing any better.
Leave his mother out of this.What is defense but weaponization at home?
BTW, that's what progressives do. We progress, throwing away outdated bullshit like not allowing women to vote, denying them the right to own a home.
And it's why it's called "progress".
I bet your mother is happy that she now makes as much as a man...or getting there. I bet your grandmother wishes SHE had some of the "privileges" afforded the average woman today.
So now we've expanded to include equal rights for some forgotten minorities. And you're pissed because?
You're afraid. You're afraid someone else is going to get something for "nothing" and you won't. It used to be blacks, then it was Mexicans, then women, and now those strange people who think there is an alternative to two sexes.
Guess what? It happens in nature 3% of the time that a person is born with both testicles and a vagina. It even has a scientific name
Hermaphrodite
Have a nice day.
Oh, long ago, and spare me your snideness. I earn my living knowing correct usage, and I've worked with second-language speakers for decades. Next smartassed remark?Thank goodness you've taken up the mantle.
If you can't distinguish between singulars and plurals, that's a "you" problem. Work on your counting skills if so.Well of course, anyone is free to make that assertion but they would only be demonstrating their ignorance.
You would need to ask Dawkins this.Does he not realize the debate is about psychology and not biology?
I have been and have posted about it.I suspect that 95% of the posters who complain about such matters are rarely exposed to atypical gender interactions as they go about their day.
Tho I generally think groups should be given the right or opportunity to designate what they wish to be called, the they/their thing seems silly. Why use plural pronouns (tho occasionally “their” is used to mean a singular) rather than adopt or choose some new term or shorthand, as gays and lesbians did?Mistreating anybody is wrong.
Laughing at the pronouns. I utterly refuse to use them. I oppose the use of "their" for "everybody," "everyone," "anybody," "anyone," "somebody", "someone," and "each" because they all mean "one." Terribly confusing for second-language speakers," and these new pronouns are also incorrect. "Their" is a plural, so again, it's incorrect and confusing. Hmmmpf, English speakers should be grateful that our language is so gender-neutral compared to other Romance languages.
We all are divisive, except on different subjects. Think of the Trump years, and before that Karl Rove, I believe, saying he divided people into “liberals and Americans.”You make a sensible statement but have to preface it with a negative comment about "right wing."
It is the LEFT that pushes ideologies of division.
I personally don't care what adult individuals do to themselves, and with other adult individuals. As long as they recognize that no one else has to agree, support, advocate for, or have to modify their own language and personal behaviors in order to "support" them, I will live and let live.
But when it comes to children under the age of consent? No effing way do I support hormone "therapy" and/or "surgical" mutilation.
Adults are free to go to hell or heaven in their own way as long as I don't have to deal with it. Children and adolescents? Thay need to be protected.
Ha, that last is a great question, one that I am definitely going to pass on.Tho I generally think groups should be given the right or opportunity to designate what they wish to be called, the they/their thing seems silly. Why use plural pronouns (tho occasionally “their” is used to mean a singular) rather than adopt or choose some new term or shorthand, as gays and lesbians did?
Btw, accepting they/their, do we make make verbs plural as well? Is it “they are here” or “they is here.” I assume the former.
Are there just 2 genders?I imagine it's bad etiquette to name names.
There are three sexes (male, female, and intersex) - have read this many times on here.
If you read or participate in threads like these you will see this.
Boi and stud. In my innocence I have to ask, what are those?Ha, that last is a great question, one that I am definitely going to pass on.
And as for the LGBT community, I finally stopped at "boi" and "stud." There are just too many descriptors to keep up with. Years ago the late economist/professor/pundit Walter E. Williams posted about why is is "black." He'd been an n-word and "colored" and just got tired of adopting the newest term.
Gender is socially constructed and referring to masculine and feminine stereotypes in a given society. It did replace the word sex for squeamish folks quite a long time ago so there is a lot of confusion.Are there just 2 genders?
You didn't know already that posts must reference the "right wing" or "Reich-wing" or Trump irrespective of topic?You make a sensible statement but have to preface it with a negative comment about "right wing."
It is the LEFT that pushes ideologies of division.
I personally don't care what adult individuals do to themselves, and with other adult individuals. As long as they recognize that no one else has to agree, support, advocate for, or have to modify their own language and personal behaviors in order to "support" them, I will live and let live.
But when it comes to children under the age of consent? No effing way do I support hormone "therapy" and/or "surgical" mutilation.
Adults are free to go to hell or heaven in their own way as long as I don't have to deal with it. Children and adolescents? Thay need to be protected.
I said right wing because I think they are different from conservative (though there can be overlap) just as democrat and progressive are different. Unfortunately the terms don’t mean anything consistent anymore but I was trying to draw some distinction not use hyperbolic terminology.You didn't know already that posts must reference the "right wing" or "Reich-wing" or Trump irrespective of topic?
A young relative of mine is "transitioning" and already presents as male. She's 15. Her parents are entirely supportive, as is the rest of the family, but her parents want her to wait until she's 18 to take other steps.
Sad to say, but even from a biological perspective, he's wrong, and he should know it.During a recent interview with British journalist Piers Morgan, famed atheist and biologist Richard Dawkins declared that "there are two sexes, and that’s all there is to it."
One of many gender-expressive terms for lesbians. It's no longer just a femme/butch world out there.Boi and stud. In my innocence I have to ask, what are those?
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