Love is contingent on a relationship. A relationship does not exist without communication.
The 10 commandments are based on 2 relationships. The first 4 deal with one's relationship with God. The last 6 deal with one's relationship with one's fellow man.
This is why Jesus preached that the 10 commandments as well as what the prophets taught were based on this premise that one must have a relationship of love, both with God and one's fellow man.
I'd like to piggyback on what you have written, and go in another direction as well.First of all…..thanks for your response. I especially liked your second paragraph….separating the first 4 commandments from the final 6 commandments. In regards to Jesus and the 10 Commandments, Matthew 19:16-22 is very instructive. The rich young man came to Jesus and asked what good thing he could do to gain eternal life….Jesus told him that there is only One that is good. That should have been a clue…..and then Jesus told him to obey the Commandments. Asking which ones the young man was told the last 6. The ommission of the first 4 is of interest.
The first 4 represent the core of Judaic faith……they are a representation of duality…..unique to Judaism and indicating a separation from all others…..the same thing that all religions do today. If one desires to be one with God there can be no serving of 2 masters. The young man said he had always kept the 6 commandments and asked what else he should do. Jesus told him to sell all his possessions and the young man left in sorrow because he had great possessions.
The young man’s answer to the last question…(love your neighbor as thyself)…was not true. He lacked love….(no greater love than laying down your life for others)…..that should not be simply dying for someone else…..your ‘life’ is your ego and everything that feeds that ego…..wealth, status,….your comparison with others et al….
One more thing: you said ‘love is contingent on a relationship’…..I would probably suggest that love is contingent on the surrendering of your ego…..that means no judgment….coming to a place of equality…..personally I believe when this happens that there is a 3rd presence…..and that is God….surrender your ego and meet God….. He will join the 2 together to become one with him…..
And calling the crowd to him with his disciples, he said to them, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. Mark 8:34 ESV
We actually know that god does lie, it happens at least twice in the bible, but go on.We know that God does not lie….
I'd like to piggyback on what you have written, and go in another direction as well.
The Romans were
Remember, Jesus had not yet been crucified, but he used the phrase "Take up his cross and follow me," and the people present understood what he meant.
"Take up his cross and follow me," meant, in the words of Jesus, total surrender. That is the goal of being a follower of Jesus. To put away one's ego, one's greed, one's carnal nature and humble oneself before God. Of course, we are only human, and frequently fail in this goal.
I'd like to piggyback on what you have written, and go in another direction as well.
The Romans were a purposeful people. When they did something, they thought it through and did it with purpose. They wanted to maximize the benefits of their efforts. This is not to justify or excuse what they did, just an acknowledgement.
Jesus used an interesting phrase, I think, in this passage:
Many people interpret this phrase that being a follower of Christ is supposed to be a burden. That, I think, is a mistake.
Remember, Jesus had not yet been crucified, but he used the phrase "Take up his cross and follow me," and the people present understood what he meant.
When the Romans executed someone, crucifixion was a common method. It was a very public and terrifying display of cruelty, designed to strike fear into the hearts of the people who saw one. It was a message "Do not challenge Rome, lest this happens to you!"
But before the Romans crucified someone, the condemned person was first beaten and tortured nearly to death in a courtyard. Frequently stripped naked, they were beaten, whipped bloody, mocked and humiliated. This unbelievable horror had a very practical purpose: The point of the torture was to take every last ounce of fight and defiance out of the condemned person. This is because it would not serve the Romans to be seen struggling with a defiant man, opposing them with his last breath as they tied or nailed the man to the cross. This would make the condemned man seem heroic in the eyes of the witnesses.
Therefore, the man was beaten into complete submission before the trek to the place of crucifixion. To test the point, the captain of the guard would bark out a command: "Take up your cross and follow me!" If the condemned man refused, the torture would continue. Later, the captain again would issue his order, "Take up your cross and follow me!" When the condemned man finally complied, he would take up the crossbeam and follow the captain through the streets to the place of the execution. He would finally welcome the relief death would bring.
"Take up his cross and follow me," meant, in the words of Jesus, total surrender. That is the goal of being a follower of Jesus. To put away one's ego, one's greed, one's carnal nature and humble oneself before God. Of course, we are only human, and frequently fail in this goal.
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