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Then why do you go into diatribe explaining how they aren't arbitrary.You are the one who keeps equating "arbitrary" to "pointless". Not me. Most, if not all, laws are arbitrary.
I just suggested it was and you agreed and proceeded to explain how it isn't arbitrary.I have no idea why you are obsessed with the law being "arbitrary."
I don't think anyone that supports it thinks it's arbitrary. I think they believe there is a historical component where people were treated as second class citizens.As though everyone who supports civil rights laws is going to change their mind if only you can show them that the law could have been some other way.
I would agree but also add romantic relationships aren’t just purely transactional now.Once again, more complete disrespect for the fact that today people have that CHOICE.
For how many years were women literally traded - transactionally - by their families into marriages for the sake of attaining or maintaining wealth?
They didn’t get a say in that. And quite often there was no affection, no choice.
So what, exactly, is your complaint that in PERSONAL relationships, in 2025…people get the CHOICE as to whom they do/do not engage in romantic relationships with?
I would hope not.I would agree but also add romantic relationships aren’t just purely transactional now.
At no point in this entire thread have I ever said that the law is not arbitrary. And in fact, I have stated that most if not all laws, including this one, are arbitrary. So I have no idea why you keep going down this rabbit hole. It's a dead end.Then why do you go into diatribe explaining how they aren't arbitrary.
I just suggested it was and you agreed and proceeded to explain how it isn't arbitrary.
Well at least two people in this thread who support civil rights laws have stated flat-out that they are arbitrary, and that we are OK with that.I don't think anyone that supports it thinks it's arbitrary.
Correct.I think they believe there is a historical component where people were treated as second class citizens.
I think segregation is bad, but ymmv.Did you such treatments were not actually because everybody was racist and didn't like black people? It's was legally required that businesses segregate. Jim Crow laws were laws. The civil rights movement was about suspending a law.
So you got no problem with child porn?What criteria are you using to decide which of our personal relationships should be regulated by some dirtbag politician?
That's why I'm confused. You say it's arbitrary and then explain why it's not. It's a bit self contradictoryAt no point in this entire thread have I ever said that the law is not arbitrary.
I don't agree with you. They aren't normally laws go through a long process of ratification to make sure they serve a purposeAnd in fact, I have stated that most if not all laws, including this one, are arbitrary.
I don't agree with you.So I have no idea why you keep going down this rabbit hole. It's a dead end.
Then why would they exist? Why not laws about howling at the moon or shaving your left testicle?Well at least two people in this thread who support civil rights laws have stated flat-out that they are arbitrary, and that we are OK with that.
you do understand convicted pedophiles are segregated from jobs involving children. That's bad?Correct.
I think segregation is bad, but ymmv.
You seem to be confused about what "arbitrary" means if you think it means "purposeless."That's why I'm confused. You say it's arbitrary and then explain why it's not. It's a bit self contradictory
I don't agree with you. They aren't normally laws go through a long process of ratification to make sure they serve a purpose
I don't agree with you.
Then why would they exist? Why not laws about howling at the moon or shaving your left testicle?
Once again, more complete disrespect for the fact that today people have that CHOICE.
For how many years were women literally traded - transactionally - by their families into marriages for the sake of attaining or maintaining wealth?
They didn’t get a say in that. And quite often there was no affection, no choice.
So what, exactly, is your complaint that in PERSONAL relationships, in 2025…people get the CHOICE as to whom they do/do not engage in romantic relationships with?
Yeah it's like I know what the word meansYou seem to be confused about what "arbitrary" means if you think it means "purposeless."
Can't use it as collateral, either.You can’t borrow affection though
No, of course not.That obviously isn't what I was talking about
But you do not believe this thing you believe is morally wrong should be outlawed in any circumstances. SMH.That obviously isn't what I was talking about.
All I'm saying is reciprocity is a key part of all relationships, including personal, professional, and work relationships.
I support freedom of association in every context, unlike you.
I also believe racial discrimination is morally wrong in every context, unlike you.
The general rule of thumb is that the government can infringe on individual rights only if there is a compelling reason to do so. The government does have a compelling reason to see to it that its citizens have access to necessities such as employment, housing, education, etc. That's what justifies infringing on the rights of an employer, a landlord, or an educator.Anti-discrimination laws regarding race exist for a simple reason: to guarantee equal opportunity and protect people from the humiliation of being rejected for something they didn’t choose and can’t change.
That principle doesn’t magically vanish when it comes to dating and sex. Racial discrimination in dating and sex is just as morally wrong as in housing or employment, because it rests on the same toxic idea: that a person’s worth is defined by their race.
Whether you say, "I won’t hire a black person" or "I won’t rent to an asian family" or "I won’t date a latino" you're doing the same thing - reducing someone’s humanity to skin color. That’s the moral failure.
These racial dating preferences often draw directly from typical racist stereotypes, which are often the same shit you'll see in labor and real estate markets.
If racism in employment and housing is wrong because it denies opportunity and harms dignity, then racism in dating is wrong for the exact same reasons. Prejudice doesn’t get a free pass just because it’s dressed up as personal preference. In fact that's how you violate anti-discrimination laws - by showing a personal preference for race.
But you do not believe this thing you believe is morally wrong should be outlawed in any circumstances. SMH.
The general rule of thumb is that the government can infringe on individual rights only if there is a compelling reason to do so.
The government does have a compelling reason to see to it that its citizens have access to necessities such as employment, housing, education, etc. That's what justifies infringing on the rights of an employer, a landlord, or an educator.
Dating based on race may be just as racist as hiring based on race. But there is no compelling reason (that I know of) for the government to involve itself in your dating choices even if they are discriminatory.
Ah, I see your confusion now. You were conflating "seemingly at random" (i.e. the speed limit on this road is 45 when it could have just as easily been 35 or 55) with "purposeless" (i.e. speed limits serve no purpose). No wonder you were so confused. I'm glad the dictionary has helped you.Yeah it's like I know what the word means
arbitrary
adjective
ar·bi·trary ˈär-bə-ˌtrer-ē -ˌtre-rē
Synonyms of arbitrary
1
a
: existing or coming about seemingly at random or by chance or as a capricious and unreasonable act of will
It's not seemingly random. You made a lot of posts explaining thatAh, I see your confusion now. You were conflating "seemingly at random" (i.e. the speed limit on this road is 45 when it could have just as easily been 35 or 55) with "purposeless" (i.e. speed limits serve no purpose). No wonder you were so confused. I'm glad the dictionary has helped you.
No, it is not "the whims of politicians". It's actually a restriction on political whims.That's too vague to be meaningful. You are referring to the whims of politicians.
It does if it keeps you from feeding your family or securing legal employment or pursuing life, liberty or happiness.That's correct. You not wanting to associate with me does not violate any of my natural, inherent, inalienable rights.
No one has the right to a personal relationship. All are free to choose heir mates, in every sense, using what ever criteria they wish. I think your post is confused and misleading in that it gives a false equivalence to private and public matters.Let me address a common objection:
"But I can’t help who I’m attracted to" - fine, then neither can a landlord or employer. If you don't accept 'personal preference' as a defense for racial discrimination in housing or hiring, then you shouldn't accept it in dating either.
Then would not gender discrimination also count in your argument. So are you arguing that if a homosexual wanted to have sex with a heterosexual then it would be discrimination for the hetero to say no based on their personal sexual inclination.Anti-discrimination laws regarding race exist for a simple reason: to guarantee equal opportunity and protect people from the humiliation of being rejected for something they didn’t choose and can’t change.
That principle doesn’t magically vanish when it comes to dating and sex. Racial discrimination in dating and sex is just as morally wrong as in housing or employment, because it rests on the same toxic idea: that a person’s worth is defined by their race.
Whether you say, "I won’t hire a black person" or "I won’t rent to an asian family" or "I won’t date a latino" you're doing the same thing - reducing someone’s humanity to skin color. That’s the moral failure.
These racial dating preferences often draw directly from typical racist stereotypes, which are often the same shit you'll see in labor and real estate markets.
If racism in employment and housing is wrong because it denies opportunity and harms dignity, then racism in dating is wrong for the exact same reasons. Prejudice doesn’t get a free pass just because it’s dressed up as personal preference. In fact that's how you violate anti-discrimination laws - by showing a personal preference for race.
It does if it keeps you from feeding your family or securing legal employment or pursuing life, liberty or happiness.
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