mu·ti·late
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: to cut up or alter radically so as to make imperfect
Mutilate - Definition and More from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary
No I am not trolling the thread. That you are so defensive about my comment not even directed at you reveals that you are more interested in other people's impressions of you than you are doing it for your own satisfaction. If you did it for your own satisfaction, nobody else's position would matter to you. The reason I don't answer your question is because it is both irrelevant to the issue at hand and to remind you that you are not entitled to an answer, just like you are not entitled to acceptance by others or a job or to not have your own decisions negatively impact your life just because you are free to make them, all of which will be affected by that decision at some point in your life.
If you read the thread you would see that I indicated I had both ears pierced which is not still that acceptable for a guy in my area. Guess what, my only response when people said something was "It's my body and I will do what I want with it". I didn't need to try to defend it to anyone or go out of my way to start things with people who had issues with it. They thought it was stupid or gay or whatever, and I didn't care because I didn't need their approval or acceptance, And you are right, I wouldn't put hose-pipe sized holes in my ears because I actually like having a career instead of a job :2wave: