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One in 10 adults use phones during sex

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it is sometimes hard to hear with the scuba gear on so then it is nice if your partner texts you the treasure map again :shrug:
 

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it is sometimes hard to hear with the scuba gear on so then it is nice if your partner texts you the treasure map again :shrug:
Yeah, then someone uses your phone and see's you doing the tuna toss. Not a Pretty sight!
 

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Ooops...my phone is ringiing. Be back shortly.
 

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Well to be fair, they did say that the phones could be used during sex to take pictures or videos or to play music, and does not necessarily mean they are conversing with another person during sexual intimacy.
To set a phone playing music before makes sense and maybe taking a break. But pictures and videos,,,of what,,, lol.

I can see how that might go, "Wait a minute honey, I forgot to take a photo/video of my ___________ for Youtube". Ok, I'm thru let's start again, what do you mean you're not in the mood now? :2razz:

Unless you're into something like the movie, "Zack & Miri Make a Porno"?
Those usually don't look good. ;)
 
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To set a phone playing music before makes sense and maybe taking a break. But pictures and videos,,,of what,,, lol.

I can see how that might go, "Wait a minute honey, I forgot to take a photo/video of my ___________ for Youtube". Ok, I'm thru let's start again, what do you mean you're not in the mood now? :2razz:

Unless you're into something the movie, "Zack & Miri Make a Porno"?
Those usually don't look good. ;)
Lol! Well that's not for me, but people make their own porn all the time. Doesn't mean it's for YouTube or anyone else. :lol:
 

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Lol! Well that's not for me, but people make their own porn all the time. Doesn't mean it's for YouTube or anyone else. :lol:
And you pray it never makes it there. Digital is forever. :shock:
 

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And you pray it never makes it there. Digital is forever. :shock:
Well like I said, I don't feel the need to film my sexual activities, so no need for praying here. :mrgreen:

I was more thinking of a married couple who might derive some kind of sexual excitement from the whole "filming" experience and perhaps watching it together later. Apparently that's a turn on for some couples. :shrug:
 

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Well like I said, I don't feel the need to film my sexual activities, so no need for praying here. :mrgreen:

I was more thinking of a married couple who might derive some kind of sexual excitement from the whole "filming" experience and perhaps watching it together later. Apparently that's a turn on for some couples. :shrug:
Oh yeah, the naughty, naughty.....

They're Watching Us

I had a couple girl friends who always wanted to do it in public, bar, library, bus, fishing pier. Made me nervous but filming would've been more exciting.
 

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Oh yeah, the naughty, naughty.....

They're Watching Us

I had a couple girl friends who always wanted to do it in public, bar, library, bus, fishing pier. Made me nervous but filming would've been more exciting.
I think for some people the idea that they might get caught is a turn on. Personally, I don't need that kind of "extra" stimulation but I guess some people do. Whatever gets your juices flowing I guess! :mrgreen:
 

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I think for some people the idea that they might get caught is a turn on. Personally, I don't need that kind of "extra" stimulation but I guess some people do. Whatever gets your juices flowing I guess! :mrgreen:
I worked in a retail store predominately female where they would often come to my office for small talk and complain about the same thing over and over and over. It became so cliche I started to laugh when I heard it. They'd say, "All my boyfriend (or husband) ever wants anymore is a blowjob."
And I would tell them you're giving him sex so often he's spoiled and bored. Hold back, get creative and realize passion is not indefinite.
 

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I worked in a retail store predominately female where they would often come to my office for small talk and complain about the same thing over and over and over. It became so cliche I started to laugh when I heard it. They'd say, "All my boyfriend (or husband) ever wants anymore is a blowjob."
And I would tell them you're giving him sex so often he's spoiled and bored. Hold back, get creative and realize passion is not indefinite.
Have to disagree with you there. I think most guys just like BJs.
 

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The title definitely threw me. I thought they were saying that a lot of people were having actual phone sex or have at least tried it. I was thinking that was an awful lot of couples who spent significant portions of their time apart.

Although my husband's and/or my phone are usually in the room with us when we do it, we don't answer it during sex, nor even use it (although there have been times when something has been left playing on it and/or the computer and/or the TV while we did it) during sex. That would be a bit of a turn off to me. If we wanted to do the sexy photos/videos thing, I would rather it be planned ahead, than spur of the moment.
 

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The title definitely threw me. I thought they were saying that a lot of people were having actual phone sex or have at least tried it. I was thinking that was an awful lot of couples who spent significant portions of their time apart.

Although my husband's and/or my phone are usually in the room with us when we do it, we don't answer it during sex, nor even use it (although there have been times when something has been left playing on it and/or the computer and/or the TV while we did it) during sex. That would be a bit of a turn off to me. If we wanted to do the sexy photos/videos thing, I would rather it be planned ahead, than spur of the moment.
Could you imagine that? That would tend to make you feel unimportant, if your husband actually answered the phone or a text during? I think I'd be pissed. :lol:
 

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wroneer.. . hop .. mani.. .of. . us. . do .. fffffroums whilll having. . sex.........................
 

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This probably explains the high divorce rate. ;)
 

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This probably explains the high divorce rate. ;)
The divorce rate was the highest in the 80s and 90s, prior to smart phones. It may contribute to the divorce rate slightly, but not very likely in a major way. It could be helping to maintain it steady, rather than us seeing a continuing declining trend like that which began in the 80s/90s.
 

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The divorce rate was the highest in the 80s and 90s, prior to smart phones. It may contribute to the divorce rate slightly, but not very likely in a major way. It could be helping to maintain it steady, rather than us seeing a continuing declining trend like that which began in the 80s/90s.
I think she was making a funny.
 
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