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I have to disagree slightly.
The BEST way to teach them is to make sure they understand, on a gut level, WHY guns, or mysterious bottles of unknown liquids, or rattlesnakes, are not a toy.
In the case of guns, removing the taboo mystique also removes the temptation to "play" with them when Daddy isn't watching.
The way I trained my son, and many other children, and advocate all gun owning parents do, is familiarization with safety training, demonstration of destructive power, and removing the mystique by allowing controlled access.
First, you SHOW them why guns are dangerous and must be taken seriously. This was my son's first lesson at age 3... I shot a 2 liter jug of water with a 12 gauge while he stood by and watched, then explained that the gun has no brain of its own and will do that to anything in front of it. It made an impression.
Next, the Three Rules of Gun Safety; finger off the trigger, assume all guns are loaded, never point at anything you dont' want to shoot. When my son gets married his wife will probably hear him mumbling the Three Rules in his sleep, that's how thoroughly I hammered those in.
If you hunt or take your kids hunting, they will get a clear and graphic view of why guns are dangerous.
To remove the mystique of taboo, you have to let them familiarize themselves with your firearms until they understand that these are powerful and dangerous tools that must be used only with care and under adult supervision, but that the allure of the taboo is removed because you will let them shoot under supervision anytime they want. Very soon, the taboo allure goes away.
I handle power tools much the same way.
My son is now 17. He first shot a gun at age 4. We have had zero incidents, zero accidents, zero injuries, in a house with many guns where we do a LOT of shooting and hunting and etc.
Allowing kids to shoot guns while carefully supervised is a good idea.
At age 4, even 6 I think that should mean that the gun is held by the adult while it is being shot. Small fingers might be allowed to squeeze the trigger, but control is in dad's hands.