However, when you say "If, however, I point out to them that the BIBLE says "that is a sin", I am neither judging nor condemning... I am attempting to inform.", you are prosthelytizing. You are publicly abusing someone you feel is a sinner because of what the bible tells you. That is wrong. You need to keep you opinion to yourself and not use humiliation to spread your word. You are condemning them.
Hmm. Proselytizing? Possibly. Depends on whether the person I'm talking to is a professing Christian or not.
Publically abusing someone? Using humiliation? When did I say it would be in public, or that abuse or humiliation would be involved? I'm not a street preacher, or any other sort of preacher.
The fact is I rarely stick my nose into anyone's business uninvited. Now if they ASK what I think, I will be as tactful as I can, but honest: I will not call something good when I have biblical reason to believe that it isn't. If I develop a personal relationship with someone, and I see them on a self-destructive path, I will try to help them if they will let me... but I don't generally try to shove my beliefs on anyone who makes it clear they aren't intrested.
If the subject comes up and the question is "what do you think about _______?", then I'm going to give my opinion or beliefs on that subject just as everyone else is... and again, I'll try to be tactful but I'm going to be honest: I can't say "well, I guess that's okay" when by my sincere beliefs it
isn't okay.
Lastly, you say "Condemn them as in calling what they do wrong? Absolutely, yes. Why? Not because I judge it to be wrong, but because the Bible says it is.". I think the bible tells us to not condemn. I pointed it out in the previous quote. It *is* judgmental and simply saying it is because the bible says so makes it not judgmental is complete bull****.
You "think the bible tells us to not condemn"... yet you admit you don't know much about the bible. Okay. I've been studying the Bible for a very long time... around forty years all total. What I told you is my honest understanding of what the bible says about "judgement". I was speaking in Biblical terms, not whether someone as an individual might feel something is "judgemental".
From the perspective of a Christian, it makes a great deal of difference whether one speaks against something based on personal bias, or based on solid teachings directly from the Bible.
A non-believer might not care one way or the other, but I'm speaking from the Christian perspective because I am one, and because that was the context of the discussion.
If you think that the Bible teaches that I
must not tell someone the
Bible says that what they are doing is
wrong... surely I don't have to point out the illogic of that? That would be like declining to inform someone that the bridge is out, because I don't want to scare them.
But still, as I said... I don't go around yelling at people about sin. If someone asks... if a friend wants advice... if there's an intrest, yes. I don't force anyone to listen to my beliefs unless they're intrested or the subject is brought up in some sense.
This is a part of Christianity which completely turns me off to ever becoming one. The uninspired and impertinent sermons, the lengthy Sunday schools, the formal attire, the condemnation, the anthropomorphic God, all turn me off.
While I think you're overgeneralizing in several different ways, I have to ask: if that's your opinion of Christianity, then why did you even begin a discussion about what the Bible says about this and that? If you don't believe and have such a negative viewpoint of Christianity, why would you
care what the Bible says?
Not to rant at you, but I seem to run into that a lot and it baffles me. People who don't believe and have never seriously studied the bible, yet they want to argue about what it says with someone who is a believer and has been studying it for decades ... I don't get it. I'm perfectly content to discuss it if you wish, but I don't understand why you're intrested at all if, when the discussion turns to things you don't agree with, you break off with some version of "well I don't believe the Bible and I don't like Christianity and I wouldn't ever want to be one anyway." So why the intrest in the first place? :shrug: