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Men are most attractive at 40

rivrrat said:
I never have found young guys all that attractive, even when I was young. 18 is most certainly NOT the peak for men. Eighteen year olds aren't even men yet. They generally still look like little boys and don't have enough experience to be good in bed or hold adult conversations.
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lol thanks.
 
1069 said:
Even if they could, they're usually either scrawny or pudgy; they still have kid bodies.
Most of them don't have grown-up bodies, or faces. They don't look entirely sexually mature, is what I'm saying.
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Yeah. Usually if I see an attractive 18 yr old (or so), I think: He's gonna be hot when he grows up.
 
rivrrat said:
I never have found young guys all that attractive, even when I was young. 18 is most certainly NOT the peak for men. Eighteen year olds aren't even men yet. They generally still look like little boys and don't have enough experience to be good in bed or hold adult conversations.
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Well, at least I can hold adult conversations....
 
rivrrat said:
They generally still look like little boys and don't have enough experience to be good in bed or hold adult conversations.
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Dav said:
Well, at least I can hold adult conversations....
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Well, try to learn how to be good in bed by reading lots of books.
Experience isn't always the best teacher.
I recommend the Beauty trilogy, by A.N. Roquelaure (aka Anne Rice).
 
1069 said:
Well, try to learn how to be good in bed by reading lots of books.
Experience isn't always the best teacher.
I recommend the Beauty trilogy, by A.N. Roquelaure (aka Anne Rice).
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....or watching lots of porn, kids.
 
rivrrat said:
I never have found young guys all that attractive, even when I was young. 18 is most certainly NOT the peak for men. Eighteen year olds aren't even men yet. They generally still look like little boys and don't have enough experience to be good in bed or hold adult conversations.
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LOL..yea I see these kids still talk about genitalia and poop..
 
kaya'08 said:
....or watching lots of porn, kids.
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I think books.
They tell you what's what, but still let you develop your own... style.
Most mainstream porn is just silly.
Neither the men nor the women are demonstrating how to be "good in bed".
They are not providing good examples for the uninitiated.
 
Most mainstream porn is just silly.
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I agree, like watching wrestling after a while it gets repetitive and predictable.
 
I'm dating a 32 y/o at the moment. Men my age can be appealing visually but they're mentally all over the place. I'm an exception of course :)

I do find older men attractive, but I gotta say I don't find most men in their 40's to be unless they have aged gracefully. Right now, for me, 30's is the ideal range. Maybe that'll change as I get older.
 
If it's any consolation to you young bucks, when you do get a little longer in the tooth, you will be able to do all night what it is currently taking you all night to do. The down side of that is, you most likely won't be doing it with a 20 year old.
 
Captain America said:
If it's any consolation to you young bucks, when you do get a little longer in the tooth, you will be able to do all night what it is currently taking you all night to do. The down side of that is, you most likely won't be doing it with a 20 year old.
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Or five or six times. :lol:
 
1069 said:
I think books.
They tell you what's what, but still let you develop your own... style.
Most mainstream porn is just silly.
Neither the men nor the women are demonstrating how to be "good in bed".
They are not providing good examples for the uninitiated.
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Lol, seriously, its not some sort of brotherhood.
A book will never teach you the way experience can. :shrug:
 
kaya'08 said:
Lol, seriously, its not some sort of brotherhood.
A book will never teach you the way experience can. :shrug:
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It's not about "experience", it's about the right experience.
I've known guys who have had sex with over a hundred chicks, who still aren't any good at it.
My belief is that being good at sex is very much intellectual and psychological. It's a mindset.
Therefore, books are as good a place to start as any.
I can't see where watching porn actors boinking each other while grunting like apes would be remotely helpful. We all already know that heterosexual sex involves a guy sticking his dick into one of several female orifices; what else are you going to "learn" from mainstream porn?
You're going to learn nothing you don't already know.
What else are you going to learn from having sex with someone equally as clueless as you are? (general "you", not "you" personally).
Nothing you don't already know.
 
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1069 said:
It's not about "experience", it's about the right experience.
I've known guys who have had sex with over a hundred chicks, who still aren't any good at it.
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Well, yeah. You don't really learn anything until you've had sex with the same person a few times.
 
1069 said:
It's not about "experience", it's about the right experience.
I've known guys who have had sex with over a hundred chicks, who still aren't any good at it.
My belief is that being good at sex is very much intellectual and psychological. It's a mindset.
Therefore, books are as good a place to start as any.
I can't see where watching porn actors boinking each other while grunting like apes would be remotely helpful. We all already know that heterosexual sex involves a guy sticking his dick into one of several female orifices; what else are you going to "learn" from mainstream porn?
You're going to learn nothing you don't already know.
What else are you going to learn from having sex with someone equally as clueless as you are? (general "you", not "you" personally).
Nothing you don't already know.
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LMAO..you do have a way with words,,,but your right. I think I was about 28 before I learned.
 
1069 said:
It's not about "experience", it's about the right experience.
I've known guys who have had sex with over a hundred chicks, who still aren't any good at it.
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Well some people are good at it and some aren't i suppose.

My belief is that being good at sex is very much intellectual and psychological. It's a mindset.
Therefore, books are as good a place to start as any.
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So how is this any more/less of an experience that porn?

I can't see where watching porn actors boinking each other while grunting like apes would be remotely helpful. We all already know that heterosexual sex involves a guy sticking his dick into one of several female orifices; what else are you going to "learn" from mainstream porn?
You're going to learn nothing you don't already know.
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Sure, sex moves :p
 
kaya'08 said:
Sure, sex moves :p
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No, lil one.
Porn is not the place to learn and refine technique.
Mainstream porn is silly and misleading because it mostly consists of men doing things to women that women typically don't like, and women acting like it's the most awesome thing ever ("acting" being the operative word).

It's not educational. It's purely for entertainment value.
 
It's been my experience that for the most part, sexuality is useless without sensuality.
 
BDBoop said:
It's been my experience that for the most part, sexuality is useless without sensuality.
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How do you define those two terms?
 
1069 said:
How do you define those two terms?
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Sexuality is of or relating to having sex, the act.

Sensuality brings all the senses into it.
 
In my experiences, I think the right way to go about pleasing your woman is, to take your time and be gentle and sensual with your kissing and touching.Giving a nice body massage is also a good way to start of. Then rubbing her softly in her sensitive place(s), at a steady pace(not to fast or to slow).And then going down on her for a good 5 minutes.And then when she's ready, let her choose her favorite position. I personally enjoy being riden, it allows her to set the pace.But regardless of the position, you should be able to feel/sense the pace, you should be at.
 
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