My goodness, me too!!!!!!
But, math is not going to click in all minds. There are some kids (and definitely not all) where math will be a natural. Let them soar in classes with only students with similar math understanding. For the rest, work like crazy to get them to a suitable understanding of basic math so they can adequately function with basic math skills in their lives. BUT, don't try to mix the two groups and DON'T hold back those strong in math because quite a number of students aren't and, frankly, never will be strong in math. Separate the groups!!!!!!
In my very strong opinion, math, more than just about any other subject typically taught to children and teens - will have its haves and have nots, so to speak. It's nearly impossible to get a student who struggles to grasp math (and likely dislikes it as a result) to the level of a student for which math is a natural (and thinks of it as their very favorite subject). Math IS NOT one size fits all, not by a longshot! And, our society desperately (and I mean desperately) needs our math superstars. Give those superstars classes and teachers all their own and don't try to populate those classes with any math challenged students. We simply must have accelerated math classes and they need to be available fairly early.
This topic should have nothing whatsoever to do with race. Kids either have math aptitude or not and it makes no difference at all what color their skin is. One can often see these strong differences in math ability, even with siblings of the same color and with the same parents. I'll repeat again and again and again, math is not one size fits all.