Justice44
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I have talked to some swinging couples who have been married over 50 years. They mention that they are very happy and fulfilled. The extramarital sex that both spouses allow in their marriages is purely recreational and is icing on the cake. Many people contend that having extra-marital sex is a lack of commitment. I don’t understand how this so called lack of commitment affects the fulfillment in these types of relationships. What I find baffling is the decision to still object to these types of marriages on moral grounds. From my perspective, morals only have meaning when they are designed to protect individuals from physical or emotional harm. Many swinging couples suffer no emotional harm from extramarital sex. Thus, the moral objection towards these couples remains baffling to me.
In order to generate discussion, please answer any of the following questions:
1. What is your moral position toward swinging? Are you a person who practices monogammy but believe it is possible to have a happy and fulfilled swinging marriage? Are you a person who believes monogammy is the only morally justified means of being married?
2. What is your experience with swingers? Do you personally know any swingers? In your opinion, is their relationship successful?
3. Are you a swinger? Has it improved your relationship?
I hope these questions will help you share your views.
In order to generate discussion, please answer any of the following questions:
1. What is your moral position toward swinging? Are you a person who practices monogammy but believe it is possible to have a happy and fulfilled swinging marriage? Are you a person who believes monogammy is the only morally justified means of being married?
2. What is your experience with swingers? Do you personally know any swingers? In your opinion, is their relationship successful?
3. Are you a swinger? Has it improved your relationship?
I hope these questions will help you share your views.