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love or infatuation

GottaGo said:
And since you never saw the pictures I posted, I could say I'm a young version of Rachel Welch....
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Hell, I'd take an old version of Raquel Welch. With Farrah gone, she's the new "DAYUM she looks great for her age" woman.
 
GottaGo said:
And since you never saw the pictures I posted, I could say I'm a young version of Rachel Welch....
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And I'm Carmen Electra.... lol

I wish. :(
 
GottaGo said:
Looks have never been of importance to me. I've dated 'ugly' men, I've dated 'handsome' men. More often than not, the 'ugly' guy has more to offer in the way of humor, intelligence and personality then the handsome one.

Just my experience.
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TheGirlNextDoor said:
Same here. For the most part.
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Yep. Same here as well. The less conventionally attractive men I've dated were all gems. The "handsome" ones, all but one, were severely lacking in much more important traits.
 
Well I have a small penis too, so I pretty much need to have a sense of humor to avoid being completely un-dateable.

Ugly dudes that are packing can go a little above their pay grade.
 
Medusa said:
Identifying the real thing

1. Love develops slowly; infatuation rapidly. Most people think that falling in love happens suddenly and intensely. Tyrone said, “I fell hard the minute I saw her yesterday. She looked just like I always pictured she would. I feel like I’ve known her all my life.”



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9. Love brings the approval of family and friends; infatuation brings disapproval. If parents or friends do not approve, beware! If they are convinced a bad choice is in the making, they are probably right. Marriages that lack the blessing of parents have a high failure rate. One researcher compared complaints by happily married persons with those of divorced persons. The divorced were almost four times as likely to complain their spouse had nothing in common with mutual friends. It was also found that happily married couples were far less likely to have problems with in-laws. If parents and friends object, take care. If theyapprove, take heart.


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l want that thing pleasee
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Excellent post, Medusa. Thanks for providing it for us. :)
 
GottaGo said:
I can love someone, without being IN love with them. There is a difference, though most men don't understand it.
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We lack the advantage of impunity, is all. From a woman's perspective, I can see how it might appear as incomprehension. You mustn't lament the paucity of male intellect, GottaGo. That you were granted the monopoly was a damnable fluke. Ask the Wiccans. They'll tell you how sacred you are. ;)
 
NoC_T said:
We lack the advantage of impunity, is all. From a woman's perspective, I can see how it might appear as incomprehension. You mustn't lament the paucity of male intellect, GottaGo. That you were granted the monopoly was a damnable fluke. Ask the Wiccans. They'll tell you how sacred you are. ;)
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l want to see him be in love with me if l am in love with him

you can love everybody but you fall in love with only opposite sex
 
Medusa said:
l want to see him be in love with me if l am in love with him

you can love everybody but you fall in love with only opposite sex
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Assuming you're heterosexual, I quite agree.
 
NoC_T said:
We lack the advantage of impunity, is all. From a woman's perspective, I can see how it might appear as incomprehension. You mustn't lament the paucity of male intellect, GottaGo. That you were granted the monopoly was a damnable fluke. Ask the Wiccans. They'll tell you how sacred you are. ;)
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But of course we are sacred, many groups believe so. :wink:

The difference, IMO, lies in the ability to separate emotions.... but that's not relegated to one gender or the other, it's something that is learned.....
 
Gipper said:
Well I have a small penis too, so I pretty much need to have a sense of humor to avoid being completely un-dateable.

Ugly dudes that are packing can go a little above their pay grade.
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ugly dudes are loved if they are kind hearted:mrgreen:
 
Medusa said:
Identifying the real thing

1. Love develops slowly; infatuation rapidly. Most people think that falling in love happens suddenly and intensely. Tyrone said, “I fell hard the minute I saw her yesterday. She looked just like I always pictured she would. I feel like I’ve known her all my life.”



Don’t jump to conclusions. Allow your relationship to grow slowly. Begin as friends, and don’t try to rush through the getting-to-know-you stage. Leisurely beginnings make for pleasurable dating relationships. Such friendships can lead to true love that resemble infatuation in intensity but are rooted in reality.
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Guys that try to be friends first, end up with alot of friends that are dating and marrying other guys.
 
GottaGo said:
But of course we are sacred, many groups believe so. :wink:

The difference, IMO, lies in the ability to separate emotions.... but that's not relegated to one gender or the other, it's something that is learned.....
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Moreso by one gender than another it seems. Call me cynical.
 
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