I hope you realize I'm speaking of my past-tense view of parenting and being a stay at home mom from when I *was* bitter over it all. I don't actually think that same way about it - haven't in years. Hence where I stated: "it took me years to accept it and do it without being bitter every day."
exactly my point. you (speaking generally; young ladies today) were taught that you
should look down on yourself for being a SAHM. that somehow the high-powered attorney, or woman in a corporate office was living the dream and a woman raising children was not.
My current view of motherhood/parenting: It's part of life - if you're going to do it, might as well do it well. . . and I do, now.
bingo. i would even take it a step further and declare that raising children isn't 'part' of life, it is the central task of life. the rest is all ancillary.
Funny that that's your comeback about Rousseau - you're not realizing just how much women *loved* him in that day and age.
oh, i believe women loved him. women loved Mussolini, too, rapist that he was. but Rousseau was a deadbeat dad who abused the mother of his children and abandoned his children at an orphanage. Exposed, he originally issued a Jonathan-Edwards-Worthy statement that he had 'certainly never left any child at the doorstep of an orphanage!' (he had taken them inside). Rousseau also completely misunderstood human nature (noble savage; only a man who had never interacted with primitive cultures could buy such crap), and the result of his (admittedly well written) ass-hattery has been to **** up Western Civilization by convincing people to add to the list of Life, Liberty, and Property, freedom
from morality.
And the Catholic Church might have Sainted several women and held them up high - but overall their direct actions and respect towards women was *just* the opposite - after all, clergy was the upper-crust.
seriously. your argument is that because the higher clergy was men they didn't respect women.
the Catholic Church was the
first organization in the history of the world to preach
any form of equality between the sexes. "In Christ There Is Neither Male Nor Female". in a society marked by barbarianism and feudalism they put women into leadership positions. Sainted several women and held them up high - next to Jesus (God) Himself, is there a figure more revered in the Catholic Church than Mary? Who was made noble by being a
mother?
And I'm using the term 'noble' as in 'honorable' or 'worthwhile' - not as a station in life or status as would be "royal nobility" - nor am I using the term under your "sacrifice of ones self." definition.
sacrifice of oneself for the betterment of others is definitely honorable and worthwhile, most especially when the result of that betterment of others is to attempt to ensure the survival of the next generation.
When it comes to notable moments and efforts in history (especially drawing from the 1700's and 1800's) by women to forward women's liberation and women's rights in the direction it eventually went that effort didn't come from "the royal-class" of women who were too busy sitting pretty and taking it easy - it came from the peasants and lower hedge of the middle class who worked just as hard as their male counterparts - but weren't valued for it. A good example of this in action is the Women's March of 1789.
you need to check out early American history; the example you've cited is excellent (you would also do good reading into the concept of Republican Motherhood), but in general during the Colonist period women had far more freedom and ability to stand on par with men than you might expect.