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I have an old crush from way back in my younger days who I no longer think of romantically...not for almost thirty years. She was very VERY cute back then...now she might be described as "not altogether homely".
Her off center kookiness was a little hard to take back then, now she's just a funny gal with a heart and it's hard not to like her as a person. Still a wee bit off center but she manages well at real life now.
Anyway, I get a hoot out of talking to her, and my old chums from back then did and still do now.
I don't know if that qualifies or not, but I could see just being friends and not ever wanting to act on anything else. She's a musician, I'm a musician, she's very artsy fartsy, I was artsy fartsy once upon a time and could easily be again if given half a chance. I get her whacko sense of humor, she gets mine.
But I look at her now and wonder what all the fuss was about, other than my prong being ready to go at a slight breeze. I know for a fact I would never have wanted a longer sexual relationship with her beyond dipping my toe in the water, again because she was hard to take back then and is mellower now.
I'm going to make a ruling that I could have a perfectly satisfying platonic relationship with her.
Her off center kookiness was a little hard to take back then, now she's just a funny gal with a heart and it's hard not to like her as a person. Still a wee bit off center but she manages well at real life now.
Anyway, I get a hoot out of talking to her, and my old chums from back then did and still do now.
I don't know if that qualifies or not, but I could see just being friends and not ever wanting to act on anything else. She's a musician, I'm a musician, she's very artsy fartsy, I was artsy fartsy once upon a time and could easily be again if given half a chance. I get her whacko sense of humor, she gets mine.
But I look at her now and wonder what all the fuss was about, other than my prong being ready to go at a slight breeze. I know for a fact I would never have wanted a longer sexual relationship with her beyond dipping my toe in the water, again because she was hard to take back then and is mellower now.
I'm going to make a ruling that I could have a perfectly satisfying platonic relationship with her.