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earthworm said:Strongly disagree, stace
And that's fine, I certainly don't expect everyone to agree with me. :smile:
The school MUST be allow to discipline children, or the children should not even be there.
There's a difference in disciplining a child and spanking them, as far as schools are concerned. If things like detention or being sent to the principal or whatever don't work, then perhaps a little investigative works needs to be done to see why the child can't behave in the school environment, but if I wouldn't even allow my mother, or any other family member besides myself or my husband, to spank my child, why should I allow a teacher to spank them? Ain't gonna happen.
The children in the school as a unit are far more important that the wishes of parents with minority views...
And you think that spanking a child is going to solve anything? Hardly.
Spanking is done by parents who do not want to take the time and effort into being good parents.
This is but partially true.
Doing the "wrong" thing may be better than doing nothing at all..
But then, there are parents who are really too stupid to bring up children ,spanking or no spanking..
Sometimes, nothing BUT spanking will get through to a particular child, I'll grant you that. But as far as my particular situation and feelings....I was severely abused by my stepfather. I'm talking thrown into the bathtub. Being thrown across my room onto my bed, where I then hit my head on the rails of my bed (I had a daybed), and THEN being smacked on the head repeatedly with a rolled up newspaper. Being grabbed by ankles, held upside down, and having my head beat against the floor. Having bruises left on me so big that they covered half of my upper arm. Being whacked with a belt so hard that I was black and blue and bleeding. Being beat so hard that my neighbors (who were separated from us by an acre of land) could hear me screaming through closed windows and doors. I will NEVER strike my child as a form of discipline unless that is the ONLY thing that works.
And yes, some people are just too stupid to be allowed to procreate. I think I've mentioned this before somewhere, but sometimes I think there should be a system similar to the adoption process that people have to go through before they're allowed to have a child. You know, home visits and all of that sort of thing. Maybe some psych evals as well.