These are all absurd demands for the Palestinians to accept. I hope you are not serious.
You misunderstand my point. I'll break it down:
- What the Palestinians won't get: Agreement that would allow them to build an offensive military capability
- What the Palestinians are assured of getting: Agreement that would allow for competent security forces sufficient to maintain internal Palestinian order
There is latitude between those two positions. If the Palestinians can provide Israel with sufficient concessions that accommodate Israel's security needs, my guess is that some military capabilities that go beyond security forces would be attainable. At the same time, Israel, Jordan, and Egypt could provide the Palestinians with additional security assurances.
Finally, one cannot pretend that power does not matter. It is the Palestinians, not Israel, who are seeking a state. To achieve the most favorable terms, they need an agreement with Israel; a unilateral declaration of a Palestinian state or eventual Israeli disengagement from the West Bank will produce less favorable terms (Israel would retain a larger share of the West Bank, perhaps up to 20%; No refugee resettlement fund would be created; No trade agreement would be reached; No civil aviation agreement would be forged; No resource-sharing agreement would be developed.
At the same time, the Palestinians lack the capacity to impose their will on the region. Hence, if the Palestinians choose to take a course other than a negotiated agreement to achieve their state, they will be unable to escape the above-noted drawbacks, much less extract more favorable terms than would have been possible in an agreement. Israel, on the other hand, possesses the power to impose its will e.g., block the Palestinian maximum agenda, among other things. Hence, the Palestinians may not want to satisfy Israel's security needs, but if they fail to do so, their options will be far more limited than they would have been under a mutually agreed solution.
Ultimately, an agreement will have to accommodate both parties' core needs, not their maximum agendas. Otherwise, there will be no agreement.
Having said that, I suspect that a reasonable deal with parameters somewhere between the 2000 Camp David proposal and 2008 Olmert proposal is still very feasible. If such terms are available, the Palestinians should seize the opportunity. My guess is that if the Palestinians squander such an opportunity, the international community will play a less active role on the issue going forward, as most would probably consider such an agreement fair and reasonable and rejection of such terms a repudiation of the efforts made on behalf of the Palestinians to achieve a sovereign state. If, on the other hand, Israel offered significantly less than what was on the table at Camp David in 2000, Israel would face criticism from the international community.