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Introvert or Extrovert?

Are you an introvert or an extrovert?


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INTJ.

According to this particular MBTI test, my type is the most rare. About 1% of the population overall.


After looking at a few piece of info on this particular type. It seems to be a fairly good description of my personality. Politically speaking (since this is a political forum) the "does it work?" idea pervades all of my thinking and is ultimately why I am a liberal (even though I am quite centrist when the spectrum is looked at from an absolute perspective), because from what I have seen, it works.


The bold parts are quite accurate as they describe me. Ultimately, I am glad my wife makes sense and I really don't care about societal norms, I do what I think is right. However, I have adapted many of those norms and outward habits as they are economically necessary for me to provide for my family, I don't believe in them though and I think they are mostly nonsense.
 
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Introvert when sober.
 
Up to a third of the world's population is infected (if you grew up around cats, it's a near-sure bet you are).

Read the section on "behavioral changes".


It's unlikely I have this, based upon the symptoms, and I have 3 cats.
 
For the record, I've dated several INT types, and I find them damn hot. Nothing is sexier than a smart man. NOT BORING, at all. Good in bed, too.

So, Dave, fwiw, you will find someone who appreciates your finer points. It just may be a slower process because of your introversion.
 
For the record, I've dated several INT types, and I find them damn hot. Nothing is sexier than a smart man. NOT BORING, at all. Good in bed, too.

Especially the INTJ since we are always trying to optimize a process
 
Full on introvert, probably actually in that highly sensitive category listed in the article. I have a lot of social anxieties and phobias as well.
 
What's this Myer-Briggs thing, and is there somewhere where I can take it online?
 
I think introversion in males stems from a lack of physical activity. I would wager that many such males have lower than average testosterone levels, which can have deleterious effects on one's health and mental well-being. It happened to me after I stopped playing sports for a few years; I became very introverted, my testosterone levels dropped, I became very anxious and sensitive, very unlike myself; I started exercising regularly and felt more like my old self, more confidence and better sleep, too.

I'd recommend to any male that they exercise regularly, especially if you're still young and growing. Nothing fancy, push-ups, sit ups, lunges, etc. Anything to get your lungs open, your blood pumping, and the testosterone flowing.
 

psssst... introversion isn't a disease.
 
I took that thing, I got INTJ. Meh, it's what it is.
 
psssst... introversion isn't a disease.

Didn't say that, buddy. I'm saying excessive introversion can stem from low testosterone levels, which has deleterious effects on physical and mental well-being.

I bet if I put you into a situation with lots of strangers, your heart would start beating through your chest, you might flush at the face, and you would generally feel uncomfortable. Who wants that?

After I started exercising again, my face cleared up (I had moderate adult acne), my back and shoulders got better (I had injuries from sports), the quality of my sleep improved, and I felt much more comfortable in strange situations with people I didn't know. My testosterone levels went back to normal and I generally felt whole again. Exercise is healthy, you should try it, especially if you're still developing.
 
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That's great. Good for you. But introverts aren't just shy. They are internally wired. Extroverts are wired to need other people. Introverts need alone time.

Our society is geared towards extroverts, but being an introvert is normal for many people. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

It's also not just something "you just grow out of." :doh
 
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I'm an ISTJ... with a score of 100% on the Introvert scale. No surprise at all, though, when I first took this test 25 years ago, I was an IRTJ.
 

I'd like to see some research rather than just anecdotal evidence.
 
Promiscuity and greater conscientiousness (in women)[30]

these hardly seem to related, do they?
 
Extroverts are wired to need other people. Introverts need alone time.

If that's the definition, then I guess I am an introvert. I don't *need* anyone. What I do *need* is to be alone sometimes, often actually. I go fricken nutso if I don't get any time alone.

However, I have no issues socially. Not shy. Not neurotic. Not lacking in confidence. I always associated a difficulty socializing with "introvert" and a profound desire to socialize with extrovert. And I never really fit in with either.
 

An introvert doesn't necessarily have trouble socializing. If given a choice, they would choose alone time verses social time. An extrovert would be the opposite. Of course, this would not be an absolute, but more on a scale.
 
I dunno... none of those questions really work. I could answer either way, or neither, and be accurate. I almost wish they all had a "sort of" option.

You may be in the center in many of the areas. For instance, on the introvert/extrovert scale, I'm dead in the center. I need an equal mix of time with people and time away from people.

There are more detailed tests. Search MBTI test.
 
An introvert doesn't necessarily have trouble socializing. If given a choice, they would choose alone time verses social time. An extrovert would be the opposite. Of course, this would not be an absolute, but more on a scale.

Oh okay. Well then yeah. I hate people unless I'm getting paid to be around them.
 

Think about introversion/extroversion like this...introverts get their batteries recharged by being alone. Extroverts get energy from being with other people.

If you need more alone time than people time, you're an introvert.
If you need more people time than alone time, you're an extrovert.
If you need a mix of both, you're somewhere in the middle.

Introversion to extroversion is like a scale from 1 to 10. Some people are 1's. Some are 10's. Some are 6's or 4's.

It really has very little to do with shyness, being quiet, etc. However, many introverts ARE quiet, because they spend more time inside their heads than they do interacting with people externally.
 
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