We (the U.S.) are a family just like your wife.
No. Just no. There is an english language that uses common definitions, try and use it.
Just like in your marriage, your wife (or you) can take a turn for the worse and you need to live with it if you are going to be faithful to the vows you took.
We agreed to that, based on common values and ethics. It was an individual choice, not foisted upon us by some made up definition of the word "family". I chose to marry my wife, and with that I accepted the responsibilities. I choose to help people around me based on their needs and merits. I am not beholden to some view of forced perpetual charity by some back asswards definition of family.
You pay taxes, don't you? The fact you pay taxes means that you are already contributing to giving welfare to other people because that is what was decided by voting as an American. You can work to make changes to what was decided by the majority but as long as you are an American, you have to live with the "good and bad", even if it means giving money to someone that is not doing anything to earn it.
Of course, I have to abide by the laws of the land. My entire point is that when you push that envelope too far with your righteous greed then you will find it counter productive, as every nation who has tried in the past has learned. Raise my taxes to 99%, do you think I will pay them? No. I will move my money into a safe haven, now you get nothing. If you try to pass a law to prevent that, then I will leave the country entirely, I have dual citizenship. This is all exactly what has happened in other nations. When you try to skin the sheep it just dies and leaves you worse off.
This is like putting up with whatever bad habit your wife may have.
Absolutely not. I'm not sure how your relationships work, but we communicate. If my wife is doing something I find to be a particularly poor choice, or vice versa, we talk about it and come to common ground. That is not the same thing as demanding my taxes go up to provide more welfare for people making bad choices.
You have no right to not do what the family (nation as a whole) has decided. You can try to change it but you have to live with it..............if you want a divorce because you cannot stand the bad things of your marriage, then do so and go and marry some other nation.
This entire analogy is the dumbest thing I have heard in a long while, so congrats on that. You can try and pass whatever law you want, you are right, and your view of that is incredibly stupid. You are cutting off your nose in spite of your face. Stick it to the wealthy, the people paying 80% of the taxes. Then they leave, they take their money, they take their tax revenue, and they leave. Best case? They change their behavior, restructure their earnings, invest elsewhere, and just damage the economy and tax receipts.
There is another thing you are missing, the constitution, and you have to respect that whether you like it or not. You see, that little piece of paper has some pretty firm and tight rules to it. Among them is a constitutional prohibition on taxing wealth. So, unless want to amend it, good luck with achieving your goals.
This is a Democracy, meaning that you have to accept the will of the majority. That is what the Constitution is. The will of the majority.
It's a republic, go back to middle school civics.
You think the constitution is the will of the majority? No. It is the founding document of the Republic that guarantees specific rights, restrictions, and provisions. It isn't a "flexible living document" like your ilk want it to be, it is designed to set a groundwork. It requires enormous effort to amend, for good and specific reason.