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In a relationship do you stand firm or give in?

Checkerboard Strangler said:
It's the very thing I seek out.
Sure, when I was in my twenties I didn't give any of the above any thought whatsoever...I just wanted a girlfriend so I could get laid.
But like most people, once I began to hit my mid-twenties I'd gotten a lot of that "sowing the wild oats" thing out of my system and I began to look for something more.

Yes, I was enthralled with how beautiful Karen is, but the "lightning bolt" that made me an instant goner was the fact that she was "WYSIWYG"....she was real, there's no guile in that woman.
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No guile but true love
 
Checkerboard Strangler said:
It's the very thing I seek out.
Sure, when I was in my twenties I didn't give any of the above any thought whatsoever...I just wanted a girlfriend so I could get laid.
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Yeah, same here. I guess some people can do the commitment thing right out the gate, But, for me, none of that sunk in until after 40. Maybe it was even clear to 50 before I really understood the value of weathering storms and giving of oneself rather than just taking.
 
Checkerboard Strangler said:
It's the very thing I seek out.
Sure, when I was in my twenties I didn't give any of the above any thought whatsoever...I just wanted a girlfriend so I could get laid.
But like most people, once I began to hit my mid-twenties I'd gotten a lot of that "sowing the wild oats" thing out of my system and I began to look for something more.

Yes, I was enthralled with how beautiful Karen is, but the "lightning bolt" that made me an instant goner was the fact that she was "WYSIWYG"....she was real, there's no guile in that woman.
And what with me being on the spectrum, I am not wired for games, guile, predatory tactics, or "getting over" ....it's just not how my mind works.
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You are an awesome person!!
 
Today i had a great day. Got some sun at the beach with my friend. Later we were sitting on the brick wall around the beach watching some Navy guys play volleyball. They asked us to play and i ruined the game, lol. Im pretty good at tennis but my volleyball skills are bad. The guys were all nice. Oh, and i think im going to get thru a whole day with an alcoholic beverage!!
 
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