I’m in my 70s – and men my own age find me sexually intimidating

[JacksinPA]

I’m in my 70s – and men my own age find me sexually intimidating

I am easily aroused and an active partner, and that seems to scare the men I date, who want a lot of caring and coaxing. Is it me or them?

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I am easily aroused and an active partner, and that seems to scare the men I date, who want a lot of caring and coaxing. Is it me or them?

I am a woman in my 70s who has not had sex for more than 15 years, and has not been dating for almost 30. I am now on dating sites. as when I My sexuality was awakened by one of the men I met, and I find myself as sexy and desirous as I was younger. The problem: I am easily aroused, often to orgasm, and I am also an active partner. I scare men. They think I am too fast; that I do not take care of them. On my part, I am not used to slow-awakening penises that need a lot of caring and coaxing. I find older men are acting like demanding spoilt kids, and I happen to not have a particularly good maternal instinct. Is there a possibility that there are men my age willing and capable of handling me the way I am? In real life, I am an independent but mild-mannered lady. I am willing to change some sexual habits, but not my personality traits. In the old days, men didn’t complain, but found it rather refreshing and exciting.
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Where was this woman when I was younger?

When I leave my doctor's office, if the receptionist is young & attractive, I tell them that they're very cute. I hope it makes their day. How often do people compliment you in a day?

 

[Deuce]

It's weird and creepy for a random old man to say that for no reason.

 

[Checkerboard Strangler]

The upside of being a little slower on the pickup is the fact that "men of a certain age", once things are aroused, are able to go more than two minutes.
As for being "scared" here's an amusing tidbit about my first wife, may she rest in peace:

After her breakup with her former hubs she went on a bit of a rebound and hooked up with a string of guys, one of them being a guy in his fifties who lived two doors down. He was handsome enough, made a decent living and had the trappings of success, and was rather pleasant, I'm guessing.

And when she got him in the sack, apparently she did scare him.
She was about like the subject of the article, randy and ready and quick to climax and more than willing to take the initiative.
And he couldn't handle it.
He told her she was "too aggressive"

Of course by the time I came into the picture "Ed" had taken up with another girl and my back of the cocktail napkin assessment of her is:
"Ultra-girly cloying arm candy - used to being kept".
She might as well have had some kind of "stripper name".
But hey, Ed appeared happy.
He struck me as kind of a "Mad Men" era guy...the "early" Mad Men era.

Linda was definitely more of a hippie-era artsy fartsy type, not much in common with old Ed.
Nowhere near 70 though, more like 43.

 

[Josie]

When I leave my doctor's office, if the receptionist is young & attractive, I tell them that they're very cute. I hope it makes their day.

That's creepy, dude.

 

[Phys251]

When I leave my doctor's office, if the receptionist is young & attractive, I tell them that they're very cute. I hope it makes their day.

 

[noonereal]

When I leave my doctor's office, if the receptionist is young & attractive, I tell them that they're very cute.

Good thing you are not Governor of NY, you'd be facing time!

I do the same thing and it's not uncommon for the women to become uncomfortable and label me a dirty old man.
How so many catch on so quick is what I can't figure.

 

[trouble13]

I’m in my 70s – and men my own age find me sexually intimidating

I am easily aroused and an active partner, and that seems to scare the men I date, who want a lot of caring and coaxing. Is it me or them?

www.theguardian.com

I am easily aroused and an active partner, and that seems to scare the men I date, who want a lot of caring and coaxing. Is it me or them?

I am a woman in my 70s who has not had sex for more than 15 years, and has not been dating for almost 30. I am now on dating sites. as when I My sexuality was awakened by one of the men I met, and I find myself as sexy and desirous as I was younger. The problem: I am easily aroused, often to orgasm, and I am also an active partner. I scare men. They think I am too fast; that I do not take care of them. On my part, I am not used to slow-awakening penises that need a lot of caring and coaxing. I find older men are acting like demanding spoilt kids, and I happen to not have a particularly good maternal instinct. Is there a possibility that there are men my age willing and capable of handling me the way I am? In real life, I am an independent but mild-mannered lady. I am willing to change some sexual habits, but not my personality traits. In the old days, men didn’t complain, but found it rather refreshing and exciting.
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Where was this woman when I was younger?

When I leave my doctor's office, if the receptionist is young & attractive, I tell them that they're very cute. I hope it makes their day. How often do people compliment you in a day?

She is the kind of woman you buy a pair of slippers and a dildo for her birthday. If she dont like the slippers, she can go **** herself

 

[Phys251]

Good thing you are not Governor of NY, you'd be facing time!

I do the same thing and it's not uncommon for the women to become uncomfortable and label me a dirty old man.
How so many catch on so quick is what I can't figure.

Surely you meant that as sarcasm. We got enough creepiness from the first post already.

 

[JacksinPA]

Good thing you are not Governor of NY, you'd be facing time!

I do the same thing and it's not uncommon for the women to become uncomfortable and label me a dirty old man.
How so many catch on so quick is what I can't figure.

I wouldn't mind if her panty gusset got wet after I left. Leave a little reminder that I had passed through her life.

 

[Josie]

I wouldn't mind if her panty gusset got wet after I left. Leave a little reminder that I had passed through her life.

I'm very, very confident that no young receptionist (or most anyone) is turned on by your creepiness.

 

[JacksinPA]

I'm very, very confident that no young receptionist (or most anyone) is turned on by your creepiness.

Creepy? In my experience, women love to be called attractive. In fact it's probably the most effective pickup line. Vanity will always win out before common sense.

 

[Tahuyaman]

Creepy? In my experience, women love to be called attractive. In fact it's probably the most effective pickup line. Vanity will always win out before common sense.

It depends on how you deliver the compliment.

 

[Antiwar]

panty gusset

Are you an underwear architect/engineer?

 

[Tahuyaman]

I’m in my 70s – and men my own age find me sexually intimidating

I am easily aroused and an active partner, and that seems to scare the men I date, who want a lot of caring and coaxing. Is it me or them?

www.theguardian.com

I am easily aroused and an active partner, and that seems to scare the men I date, who want a lot of caring and coaxing. Is it me or them?

I am a woman in my 70s who has not had sex for more than 15 years, and has not been dating for almost 30. I am now on dating sites. as when I My sexuality was awakened by one of the men I met, and I find myself as sexy and desirous as I was younger. The problem: I am easily aroused, often to orgasm, and I am also an active partner. I scare men. They think I am too fast; that I do not take care of them. On my part, I am not used to slow-awakening penises that need a lot of caring and coaxing. I find older men are acting like demanding spoilt kids, and I happen to not have a particularly good maternal instinct. Is there a possibility that there are men my age willing and capable of handling me the way I am? In real life, I am an independent but mild-mannered lady. I am willing to change some sexual habits, but not my personality traits. In the old days, men didn’t complain, but found it rather refreshing and exciting.
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Maybe this woman need to find a nineteen year old who's quick on the draw?

 

[Deuce]

Creepy? In my experience, women love to be called attractive. In fact it's probably the most effective pickup line. Vanity will always win out before common sense.

No, you're being creepy and weird and virtually every woman you say that stuff to thinks you're creepy and weird.

You know why they don't tell you to **** off? They're in a customer service position and it's literally their job to be nice to you. If they say what they think about you, they get fired.

Learn to think about other peoples' perspectives.

 

[Bodi]

I’m in my 70s – and men my own age find me sexually intimidating

I am easily aroused and an active partner, and that seems to scare the men I date, who want a lot of caring and coaxing. Is it me or them?

www.theguardian.com

I am easily aroused and an active partner, and that seems to scare the men I date, who want a lot of caring and coaxing. Is it me or them?

I am a woman in my 70s who has not had sex for more than 15 years, and has not been dating for almost 30. I am now on dating sites. as when I My sexuality was awakened by one of the men I met, and I find myself as sexy and desirous as I was younger. The problem: I am easily aroused, often to orgasm, and I am also an active partner. I scare men. They think I am too fast; that I do not take care of them. On my part, I am not used to slow-awakening penises that need a lot of caring and coaxing. I find older men are acting like demanding spoilt kids, and I happen to not have a particularly good maternal instinct. Is there a possibility that there are men my age willing and capable of handling me the way I am? In real life, I am an independent but mild-mannered lady. I am willing to change some sexual habits, but not my personality traits. In the old days, men didn’t complain, but found it rather refreshing and exciting.
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Where was this woman when I was younger?

When I leave my doctor's office, if the receptionist is young & attractive, I tell them that they're very cute. I hope it makes their day. How often do people compliment you in a day?

Another really ****ing weird article/subject to be bringing up... do you have something to share about yourself?

 

[Bodi]

It's weird and creepy for a random old man to say that for no reason.

It is beyond weird... it is creepy and inappropriate and borders on sexual harassment. @JacksinPA

 

[calamity]

Maybe this woman need to find a nineteen year old who's quick on the draw?

I hear ya because guys her age are likely flipping on videos to watch nineteen year olds go at it.

 

[Omniscient]

Creepy? In my experience, women love to be called attractive. In fact it's probably the most effective pickup line. Vanity will always win out before common sense.

women love to have creeps in their life too. but they cant admit that

everyone woman wants to tell her stories about all the "creeps" she rejected

all the stalkers who were obsessed with her

the big tough macho guy who hit her

and all this other ego gender drama

she needs to be wanted. which is hard for her nowadays that so many men are at home playing video games and jerking off to porn and ignoring her lol