kerussll
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re: How men look at women [W:749]
Yes, this is absolutely something women need to work on too. I have to check my own judgments about what people wear. But I treat everyone with respect. Plenty of women like to gossip, and slut shame as much as men or more.
I'd go so far as to say women are far MORE judgmental than men.
I'd also say the "impossible standards" are in many ways set and enforced by women too.
Men are extremely easy to please. Pay attention to us, feed us, sleep with us, and we're happy. Guys are not complicated.
The "image" that so many women feel they have to live up to is an "image" they've created and fostered themselves.
Women are a freakin complicated mess of turmoil and judgment.
Yes, this is absolutely something women need to work on too. I have to check my own judgments about what people wear. But I treat everyone with respect. Plenty of women like to gossip, and slut shame as much as men or more.