Carjosse, you are seeing the glass half full. I don't mean to minimize your plight, but I bought my first home as a single man at age 23. It was an old house, 900 sq. feet,
3 bedroom, 1 bath, in a small town 30 minutes from my family and my job. I bought books, learned how to fix it up (the internet did not exist then), sold it for a profit, then started the process over again. With the amount of You Tube video's available today you can do the same thing, but it means some sacrifice. When my buddies were going to the bar, I was saving for a house, when they were going to a ballgame I was replacing old worn out cabinets. It's not easy, but if you make it your highest priority you can buy a home.