I really don't see how the OP's stance is at all objectionable. I understand that things like homeless shelters, methadone clinics, prisons, graveyards, dumps and sewage treatment plants are all necessary parts of a city. That doesn't mean I'm wrong to object to their placement near my home. Whether or not individual homeless people are more prone to committing crimes is irrelevant - the fact is that the location of a shelter near a home will lower property values and create an atmosphere than many would find uncomfortable.
To be honest with you, I don't think it's objectionable either. I don't think that a homeless shelter should be near schools or residential areas either.
However, when you look at the type of people who are likely to be perpetually homeless, the demographics are either 1) the mentally ill or 2) ex-convicts with felonies. Those are two demographics normally not treated very well by conservatives.
The standard Republican response to the mentally ill is for them to "pull themselves up by their bootstraps." That's not easy for the mentally ill to do. What they need is treatment and in many cases medication. It costs money for social workers to provide that treatment. But in most cases the mentally ill cannot do it themselves since they lack the capability to do so by virtue of their mental illness.
The standard Republican response to ex-convict felons is "well, you shouldn't have done the crime." In most states, if anyone is convicted of a felony, they have to check a box for work applications and in many cases applications to rent a home or apartment.
Based on that alone, employers and renters can deny them employment or renting a shelter, respectively.
Now when it comes to the mentally ill, they can't help that the roulette of genetics or environment has caused them to develop inabilities to function in society. But by allowing the government to use professionals to give the mentally ill treatment and needed medication, those professionals can help the mentally ill become productive citizens. So by making the investment in the mentally ill by paying for social workers with tax dollars, society will get a return because those mentally ill will be able to be a part of the work force instead of a drain on welfare or private charities.
When it comes to ex-felons, if people don't allow people who have paid their dues to society for their crimes to be treated as full citizens again, then there's no point in allowing themselves to be rehabilitated. Let them try to hold down jobs. Let them rent homes. If they're trying to be a positive influence on society after their crimes, let them.
And even if you're not, let them have shelter. Start building communities whose apartments can be rented
only by ex-felons. They're going to need places to live too when they get out. And they're going to need jobs too when they get out. Otherwise, they'll have no reason to try to go straight, because if they go back to jail then at least they'll get 3 square meals and a roof over their head.
So, RightinNYC, I sympathize with the OP as well. But then the question becomes, "Well, if we're not going to do that, then what
are we going to do?" Or maybe I just think that way because I'm looking at the larger picture.
Also: with regards to the OP, something the poster can do is call a lawyer and see what her options are. That would probably be the most effective way to deal with this issue, in all honesty.