MaggieD
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- Joined
- Jul 9, 2010
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- Location
- Chicago Area
- Gender
- Female
- Political Leaning
- Moderate
My dad taught me so much as a child -- and even as an adult. He was my "go-to guy" all my life when I had a problem that I just couldn't seem to sort out. He re-assured me when I was right; told me when I was wrong; and, sometimes, told me that, even though I was right, the important thing was to be happy. (That about marriage advice more than anything else.)
On my 17th birthday, I realized my dad had feet of clay. On my 17th birthday-and-a-day, I realized I still loved him very much.
Dads, don't ever under-estimate your importance in your kids' lives. Our first hero -- our first love.
My ex and her new boyfriend think it's a good idea that I do not get to interact with my children. Last time I got to speak to them on the phone was 2 months ago. She says the kids are upset with me so stop calling because you're a half a$$ed father. So I have an attorney, a laundry list of evidence, and in 45 days we'll see what happens. Not a happy fathers day today, but I'll take a rain check until the judge lets her know how much of an idiot she is.
At five today, I'm going to go thank my dad for successful procreation, and I'll reward him with beer and a great new Taylor Made golf cap.
No kids yet yourself?