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Chimpanzees and chickens are cannibals.
Which means that any arguement based purely on what is 'natural' should be dismissed outright.
Chimpanzees and chickens are cannibals.
Speaking of natural, perhaps we should look to the lion as a role model. Seeing the lioness he desires, he kills her fatherless cubs, then creates his own offspring. His cubs will survive, not the cubs of the inferior lion who lost a fight and ran away, died or abandoned his offspring.
Which means that any arguement based purely on what is 'natural' should be dismissed outright.
However, it is a rebuttal to the argument that homosexuality is unnatural.
SYDNEY, Australia — It was a young penguin colony, and all but one of the couples were pretty bad parents. They would get distracted from their nests, go for a swim or play, and so neglected eggs were getting cold, likely never to hatch. This was normal for inexperienced penguins, and the aquarium managers didn’t worry. Next mating season would be better. One couple, though, was extraordinary. Not because they were the colony’s only gay penguins, though they were, but because Sphen and Magic looked like they would make great, diligent, careful egg-warming parents. They made the biggest nest, and they sat on it constantly.
Curious, the aquarium managers gave the two males a dummy egg. They took to it. And so then, when a particularly negligent heterosexual penguin couple looked to be leaving an egg exposed (females lay two, but usually only one survives), the aquarium workers figured they would give it to Sphen and Magic. In October, that egg hatched. Now the chick of a gay penguin union is waddling around an ice enclosure by the touristy docks in Sydney.
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https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/15/style/gay-penguins-australia.html
We've got also a pair of gay swans in Boston Common's main pond, at least during the warmer months. (Or did. It's been a while since they were last written about, or at least, since I noticed it and I don't know how long swans live). If you don't want to use it for debate, well, it's an interesting enough story.
If you do, well.....
I do hope nobody intends to tell me that these penguins and/or swans are going to be sent to hell by a God because of making a "choice" that this God disapproves of.
Since you have this... Animals can't sin because sinning is a purposeful turning away from God's plan since animals can't know what he wants they cannot sin and can't go to hell.I do hope nobody intends to tell me that these penguins and/or swans are going to be sent to hell by a God because of making a "choice" that this God disapproves of.
My problem with the argument that gays can be parents is that it assumes and relies on the premise that heterosexual couples shouldn't/won't be parents of their rightful offspring. This a terrible assumption to start with.
If course there will always be neglected or parentless children but if your marriage or parenting agenda relies on the failures of other parents, we've hit a problem somewhere.
The simple answer fact here is nature did not intend for homosexuality to be passed on, encouraged, or used as a model for parenting, and that's obvious through our biological and evolutionary reproductive system. Of course we can challenge nature but when it's an issue of children, our future, we tread on very dangerous grounds.
No, it's not a terrible assumption to start with, as it's proven time and time again that parents are going to be bad parents.
So instead of focusing on how we're saying these parents are bad, why don't you instead focus on those kids that need attention.
So wouldn't it be worthwhile looking into how we can change this, however difficult?
Answer me this; ideally, would you agree that a child should (best case scenario) be raised by their biological parents?
Of course there are ****ty abusive parents. My idea is that working on reducing the number of ****ty parents would not only reduce the number of meth addicts (for example), but also produce a much bigger benefit to children. Gays can be good parents. Heteros would be better.
The best thing we could ever do for children is to help their biological parents be healthy, happy, and fit to raise them. Nothing could even come remotely close to that.
Chimpanzees and chickens are cannibals.
No. My mother should have never had children...
So no, I think that statement is ignorant of the real world and it's inhabitants.
You misunderstood or dodged the question. I said in an ideal scenario, if we could make it possible, do you agree that a child should be raised by their biological parents?
To use your specific example, don't you wish that your mother wasn't abusive and neglectful, and that she was instead helped and supported to raise you caringly? Don't you wish your original mother was as loving as your grandma was?
SYDNEY, Australia — It was a young penguin colony, and all but one of the couples were pretty bad parents. They would get distracted from their nests, go for a swim or play, and so neglected eggs were getting cold, likely never to hatch. This was normal for inexperienced penguins, and the aquarium managers didn’t worry. Next mating season would be better. One couple, though, was extraordinary. Not because they were the colony’s only gay penguins, though they were, but because Sphen and Magic looked like they would make great, diligent, careful egg-warming parents. They made the biggest nest, and they sat on it constantly.
Curious, the aquarium managers gave the two males a dummy egg. They took to it. And so then, when a particularly negligent heterosexual penguin couple looked to be leaving an egg exposed (females lay two, but usually only one survives), the aquarium workers figured they would give it to Sphen and Magic. In October, that egg hatched. Now the chick of a gay penguin union is waddling around an ice enclosure by the touristy docks in Sydney.
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The Gay Penguins of Australia - The New York Times
We've got also a pair of gay swans in Boston Common's main pond, at least during the warmer months. (Or did. It's been a while since they were last written about, or at least, since I noticed it and I don't know how long swans live). If you don't want to use it for debate, well, it's an interesting enough story.
If you do, well.....
I do hope nobody intends to tell me that these penguins and/or swans are going to be sent to hell by a God because of making a "choice" that this God disapproves of.
I have to work with what I have today, not some ideal future state.
Also, to dispute your original point, and I already have, gays can be just as good of parents, if not better, than straight people.
Then yes, the gays would need to find surrogate parents or artificial insemination.
But what we do today determines the future state. Nothing happens on its own.
You agree that it is ideal for biological parents to be raising their children instead of this continuous problem where many of them are unfit or unable and the child ends up on the street or in adoption homes. So I think most of our efforts need to be on addressing this, instead of letting it happen but pretending it's OK because gay couples can be there to adopt the child when they have already been thru hell.
This is still debatable. Gays have only been raising kids as a legally recognized and supported family model for the last 10-20 years. Heterosexuals have been doing it for millions of years thru famine, disaster, tyranny, plagues, and all sorts of other barriers. It is a tried and tested model for raising kids and growing a society. Homosexuality isn't.
I would argue that it's impossible for anyone to love anything the way a biological parent loves their child. This is especially true for women (mothers) who traditionally show way more love towards their kids than fathers do. That's because fathers don't know what it feels like to carry said child for 9 months thru agony and pain. They'll never have that same intimate connection with a child as the mother forms during pregnancy. So gay male couples will never be able to provide said love to their adopted children.
Granted - with lesbians it is different because they can carry a child via artificial insemination, but that's a different story. Many female animals can get pregnant but still lack the motherly instincts to raise their offspring.
Which are both terrible avenues to go down on a social level. It will lead to commercial surrogacy, where a woman gives up her body and genitals for the lure of money, often against her will because she has nothing else to eat and is forced to do it. This is not something to embrace or encourage. It's the same as prostitution.
One last thing, we talk about how it's best if biological parents raise their kids. I'm going to devils advocate that - do children who don't know their adopted not bond to their adoptive parents the way a child would to their birth parent? Are there any studies done on this? I question to what extent that the "biological parent" argument is really valid.
SYDNEY, Australia — It was a young penguin colony, and all but one of the couples were pretty bad parents. They would get distracted from their nests, go for a swim or play, and so neglected eggs were getting cold, likely never to hatch. This was normal for inexperienced penguins, and the aquarium managers didn’t worry. Next mating season would be better. One couple, though, was extraordinary. Not because they were the colony’s only gay penguins, though they were, but because Sphen and Magic looked like they would make great, diligent, careful egg-warming parents. They made the biggest nest, and they sat on it constantly.
Curious, the aquarium managers gave the two males a dummy egg. They took to it. And so then, when a particularly negligent heterosexual penguin couple looked to be leaving an egg exposed (females lay two, but usually only one survives), the aquarium workers figured they would give it to Sphen and Magic. In October, that egg hatched. Now the chick of a gay penguin union is waddling around an ice enclosure by the touristy docks in Sydney.
[cont.]
The Gay Penguins of Australia - The New York Times
We've got also a pair of gay swans in Boston Common's main pond, at least during the warmer months. (Or did. It's been a while since they were last written about, or at least, since I noticed it and I don't know how long swans live). If you don't want to use it for debate, well, it's an interesting enough story.
If you do, well.....
I do hope nobody intends to tell me that these penguins and/or swans are going to be sent to hell by a God because of making a "choice" that this God disapproves of.
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