BrettNortje
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I find that foreplay sets the mood for sex. if the foreplay is 'sexy,' the sex should be explosive, as it is a lot of energy being created by the woman and she would make the man linger in his fantasies about what he wants to do to her, making him way too eager and then it will be natural. this is because the man will have been having flashes in his imagination about what will happen, and then freestyle due to desperation, yes?
If the foreplay is 'playful' the man will be gentle, as he will be wary of scaring a 'child' away, yes? this is because even men have maternal instincts and will want to comfort the person they are worried about, of course.
If the foreplay is 'rough,' like a man trying to throw his woman up against cupboards with passion, then the woman will feel appreciated and more likely to submit to real fantasies they have talked about or kept secret from each other. this is because 'rough sex' is full of testosterone and energy, hall marks of the male psyche, where the man dominates and the woman feels, not sexy, but desired - needed by the man - to satisfy his desires.
If the foreplay is 'clumsy,' then the man will feel bad and the sex will be bad, unless he is mature and can laugh at himself. so, if it is a young man, and the sex is clumsy, then the surprise of it all will make the male feel weak and silly, making him get angry. this could stop the woman feeling wanted and looked after and then there could be violence. so, my advice for women on this is to, if taken by surprise, to submit to the man, and let him feel as in control as possible.
If the foreplay is 'playful' the man will be gentle, as he will be wary of scaring a 'child' away, yes? this is because even men have maternal instincts and will want to comfort the person they are worried about, of course.
If the foreplay is 'rough,' like a man trying to throw his woman up against cupboards with passion, then the woman will feel appreciated and more likely to submit to real fantasies they have talked about or kept secret from each other. this is because 'rough sex' is full of testosterone and energy, hall marks of the male psyche, where the man dominates and the woman feels, not sexy, but desired - needed by the man - to satisfy his desires.
If the foreplay is 'clumsy,' then the man will feel bad and the sex will be bad, unless he is mature and can laugh at himself. so, if it is a young man, and the sex is clumsy, then the surprise of it all will make the male feel weak and silly, making him get angry. this could stop the woman feeling wanted and looked after and then there could be violence. so, my advice for women on this is to, if taken by surprise, to submit to the man, and let him feel as in control as possible.