MaggieD
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- Joined
- Jul 9, 2010
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- Moderate
Count me among those who are thrilled for every child who has even one loving and competent parent. Such a blessing to have two, gay or straight. But even if you call them "Parent 1" and "Parent 2," "mother" and "father" aren't interchangeable roles. Children do need manhood and womanhood modeled for them. I strove with all my might to be all things to my children, but what I wasn't able to do was be a father for them.
My girlfriend recognized this when her son was little...she tried to find him mentors in Scouts and tried to get his father to interact with him much more than he did. (He supported his two kids well, but didn't see them much.) She did the best she could...my husband being one of his role models. Loving parents do the best they can. It's all anyone can ask.