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UtahBill said:Part of the problem here is unrealistic expectations of our youth. They don't know that all the things that mom and dad have took them 20 or more years to earn. They want to start off in life as young marrieds (or not married) with ALL the stuff that their elders have.
I am doing better than my parents, and my kids will do better than me, and the grandkids better yet. Part of that will be due to grandma and grandpa helping out, and guiding their efforts, and giving advice, and making sure they get a good education. The family should stay connected from generation to generation, and the older members should help the younger ones, or at least the younger ones who are doing their part. The lazy ones can make it on their own as best they can. That goes for my grandkids as well. I hope none of them have to discover that the hard way.
I think one thing families need to understand-and emphasis more-is on finachial strength and weaknesses, and encourage the know how of keeping your books straight and finances in order, and how important money actually is in the world.
Lets face it, the world is about the money, thats what you get to get things, thats a fact of life that many parents steer away from teaching their kids about.