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Do you care if your girlfriend/bride is a virgin? (1 Viewer)

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question for all (straight) men:

do you actually give a damn whether or not you marry a virgin? do you care if your girlfriend is a virgin?

lots of abstinence programs are telling girls to remain virgins for their future husband's sake. are they right?
 
Wow, really great topic I have to say.

Personally, I waited for someone special to me, and it really made it worth it, so the only real advice I'd give to ANYONE would be to wait for the right person.

That being said, if I truly care for a girl, my only concern is that they've been safe. I've had myself some experience and I enjoy not being called on it because I was always responsible, and that's really the only concern with me.

Heck, what's wrong with a little experience? I admire strong women, and their sexuality should mean to them what they want it to.
 
Absolutely not. What I do care is her honesty and compatability with me. Everything else is relative.
Virginity is waaaaaaaaay over rated, thanks to the wholesome image that religious slavers try to sell us.

But then were it my daughter, hmmmm, alright I'm gonna have a double standard because I know how many asshole men are out there.
 
jfuh said:
Absolutely not. What I do care is her honesty and compatability with me. Everything else is relative.
Virginity is waaaaaaaaay over rated, thanks to the wholesome image that religious slavers try to sell us.

But then were it my daughter, hmmmm, alright I'm gonna have a double standard because I know how many asshole men are out there.
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lol, wanting to protect her fro assholes is one thing. wanting to keep her in mint condition so that assholes will want to invest in her is another.
 
My 14-year-old nephew told me that he and his girlfriend are waiting until they get older before they do anything. After High school he plans on marring his sweetheart and joining the Marines. I’m so proud of him I could burst….

When his was 6 every time he came over he had to go thru uncle’s
GI Joe box.
 
star2589 said:
lol, wanting to protect her fro assholes is one thing. wanting to keep her in mint condition so that assholes will want to invest in her is another.
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I was actually thinking along the lines of never letting a single asshole touch her ever - nunhood seems good :mrgreen:. But then again this is if I had a daughter to begin with. Now as for having a son, better not be an asshole boy, but don't mind him going around, yeah deffinte double standard.
 
cherokee said:
My 14-year-old nephew told me that he and his girlfriend are waiting until they get older before they do anything. After High school he plans on marring his sweetheart and joining the Marines. I’m so proud of him I could burst….

When his was 6 every time he came over he had to go thru uncle’s
GI Joe box.
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The later portion no problem. But 14? doing anything? My goodness, kids these days. I hope he'll be able to keep himself in line until at least 18.
 
jfuh said:
The later portion no problem. But 14? doing anything? My goodness, kids these days. I hope he'll be able to keep himself in line until at least 18.
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14 = too young!

18= too late, well, atleast to me. I was 16.
 
Sir_Alec said:
14 = too young!

18= too late, well, atleast to me. I was 16.
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14 = rudimentary expereince of testosterone.
16 = testosterone charged blue balls begin
18 = hopefully the testosterone charge is over now and the estrogen has kicked in.

This is only applicable to guys, as for daughters. Until your legal = never :mrgreen:
 
star2589 said:
do you actually give a damn whether or not you marry a virgin? do you care if your girlfriend is a virgin?
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I prefer not to date virgins. I'm a very difficult person to be involved with, and it isn't right for an innocent girl to be subjected to me.

People have too many funny notions of what love and sex ought to be, until they've been around the block a few times.

I won't marry a virgin. Marriage is too damned serious-- and should be too permanent-- for people to enter into before they have a good amount of worldly experience under their belts. I am honestly uncomfortable with the idea of marrying someone for whom I have been their only sexual partner-- though I can overlook this for the right woman.

star2589 said:
lots of abstinence programs are telling girls to remain virgins for their future husband's sake. are they right?
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No. I don't know anyone who expects to marry a virgin, and I absolutely cannot comprehend how going into it with a head full of fairy tale nonsense is going to help anybody.
 
jfuh said:
The later portion no problem. But 14? doing anything? My goodness, kids these days. I hope he'll be able to keep himself in line until at least 18.
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14 is nothing in today’s world from what he said.

He told me peer pressure about sex started at 12. AT 12!!
But my sister and brother in law have raised him well.
He won’t allow himself to be bullied or pressured into anything by his friends.
 
I never had sex because of peer pressure. That would have been way below me, even at such a young age. I had sex because I knew my girlfriend was a virgin like me. After attaining some protection it became something we did everytime we went to eachother's houses. I developed a saying: When all else fails, pull out
 
Korimyr the Rat said:
No. I don't know anyone who expects to marry a virgin, and I absolutely cannot comprehend how going into it with a head full of fairy tale nonsense is going to help anybody.
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yes, exactly

marriage is serious business and we spend far too much time disneyfying it
 
The girl I'm trying to get with is apparently saving herself for marriage, which is frankly a relief, as she's prone to getting lashed on double-vodka's. If she wasn't I'd have been put off long ago by nightmares of laying back on bedsheets soaked with the combined deposits of a rugby team.:shock:

That being said, if I can hook up with her then the law will have to be laid down. Sweetheart, I ain't gonna pressure you, I don't need to. I've been alone so damn long I have the self control of a ninja grandmaster, so take your time. But I sure as hell ain't paying the sticker price unless I get a test drive first.
I have no need to get married, too expensive, and it would be a bit hypocritical, God and me don't get along, I can't very well turn up in His house, asking for His blessings, now can I?
 
star2589 said:
do you actually give a damn whether or not you marry a virgin? do you care if your girlfriend is a virgin?
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Do you mean before or after I'm through with her? :)
 
star2589 said:
question for all (straight) men:

do you actually give a damn whether or not you marry a virgin? do you care if your girlfriend is a virgin?

lots of abstinence programs are telling girls to remain virgins for their future husband's sake. are they right?
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Haha. To anyone who does, I say good luck with that. The list of people I'm reasonably sure are virgins grows shorter all the time.
 
Lizai said:
Haha. To anyone who does, I say good luck with that. The list of people I'm reasonably sure are virgins grows shorter all the time.
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Only relatively speaking. ;)
 
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