Re: Do they hate women?
Not necessarily. It's very easy for me to understand the pro-life position in spite of being virulently pro-choice. If you truly believe that an unborn child is worth as much if not more than the woman who is carrying it because it's human, innocent, whatever, then I get why your pro-life position has nothing to do with hating women. It's just about the child. I do, however, think that there are pro-life people whose position comes from hating women. After all, misogynists still certainly exist. There are some men who just think poorly of women and believe that they need to shut up and do what they're told. I would imagine that pro-life men like this see abortion as disobedience, a betrayal of their "role" as women or something similar so it pisses them off. There are also some women who - internalizing misogyny - are misogynists themselves and take on similar attitudes.
I don't know what percentage of pro-life people have those attitudes or other misogynistic attitudes. I don't think about pro-life people enough to come up with even a ballpark percentage. What's interesting, though, is that when you read discussions about abortion, many pro-life people - including on DP - descend into misogynistic seeming comments where they denigrate women who get abortions. I've seen so many nasty comments on DP about women who opt for abortion and it's disgusting. However, it can be difficult for me to tell whether these comments are coming from a place of misogyny or coming from a place of just being genuinely disgusted with adults who would kill "innocent children" (in the words of pro-lifers) much in the same way most people might get pissed at child molesters or rapists. In other words, there is a lot of reason to believe that many pro-lifers are misogynists, but it could also be a misinterpretation of the motives behind their expressed frustration.
But again, I think there are plenty of pro-life people who just simply value the unborn child above all else. There are plenty of pro-life people who, even when pressed by pro-choicers, do not devolve into nasty insults against women who get abortions. These are people who I don't believe are misogynistic at all as they've given me no reason to consider the possibility.