It was available to me with my very liberal company too at the time, but I declined to take it. Preferred to go back to work and do my job, and support my team of co workers rather than take unnecessary time off that I did not need. And then when I needed to take off some family leave time to manage a family health crisis, I was very appreciative of the time the company provided me to deal with that when my home situation was a higher priority than work.
Now, if a man's wife had a rough labor and delivery, is ill, and he needs the time to care for mom and the baby for a week or so, that is different. But just to stay home with HIS husband and what--- wallpaper Disney characters on the nursery wall, and cuddle on the sofa........ well, I don't hold with any of that kind of thing. Unless mayor Pete and his husband adopted a sick baby needing special care, his decision to leave his post at work was NOT a very stand up guy move in my opinion. And I don't believe voters across the country feel much differently than I do...not a majority.
This country is becoming more and more wussified for sure, but it hasn't settled into Texas, Oklahoma, Iowa, and Montana all just yet. The whole country thank God is not yet like SF, LA, and Sedona AZ.