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Recently I noted something. I have a friend who would in a group bring up topics that others might have told her when they were alone = topics they might have felt comfortable in a one to one yet they did not want it to be announced to wider groups.
This is a female -- she would bring up very personal topics told to her in a group if she had any one to one conversations with a person. I recently saw a younger guy squirm and on something very personal he had told her in a private convo. I am sure he learned his lesson as he is very smart and kind and now avoids her.
I am careful to not bring up what might possibly be a confidence told to me in a one to one later in a group.
My friend claims this guy is dishonest if he does not want the group to know what ever he said to her privately of himself.
Are people that dense these days?
This is a female -- she would bring up very personal topics told to her in a group if she had any one to one conversations with a person. I recently saw a younger guy squirm and on something very personal he had told her in a private convo. I am sure he learned his lesson as he is very smart and kind and now avoids her.
I am careful to not bring up what might possibly be a confidence told to me in a one to one later in a group.
My friend claims this guy is dishonest if he does not want the group to know what ever he said to her privately of himself.
Are people that dense these days?