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What about Hindu's and Buddhists...?
American Indians and other tribal beliefs?
All the same god?
Is Zeus or Ra basically the same as the Christian God?
And does god enjoy all the holy wars?
Gee...how convenient.
God is responsible for everything good.
The Devil is responsible for everything bad.
Ain't that nice.
Now provide some proof that the Devil killed that girl.
You can only comfort grieving people by making up stories about an afterlife that not one single person can ever prove exists???
Surely you're not suggesting that's a good reason to accept a religious belief?
I have no doubt. But how have you found comfort in times of loss knowing that your existence and those of everyone you love is totally ephemeral? That the only place your loved ones will dwell upon their passing is in your memory but that the record of the lived experiences of their existence will disappear the moment you pass away...or suffer from some neurodegenerative disorder that causes you to lose your memories?
False comfort as opposed to what? Because let us look at reality as it is: Humanity is doomed. We have perhaps, if we are lucky, another few thousand years on Planet Earth before we go extinct and our fossilized bones are perhaps found by another interstellar civilization that muses over our ashes. Or, more likely, the empty skies look down upon as as the stars wink out one by one as the heat death of the universe approaches, and our sun expands and atomizes this planet.
There is false comfort. And then there is no comfort.
. Some start looking for hope in Dialectical Materialism,
These are common questions, indeed. Almost all are based on emotion, specifically the emotions of comfort and fear. But there are more uncomfortable questions beyond these simplicities.
Such as: "How as an atheist do you comfort someone who has lost a child? Do you just place your hand on their shoulder and say 'There is no Heaven where your child awaits you. Your son/daughter has been erased from existence and there is no ultimate justice that will undo it or make you whole. The universe does not care about your baby any more than it cares about you. And when you die all memory of your child will be lost along with you. Sorry for your loss.'"
As an atheist, I still do not have a good answer. Because I certainly cannot say "They are in a better place right now." Nonexistence is not a better place.
I have seen some very devout people question their faith upon the death of a loved one ~ especially if the death was violent or protracted. One lady I know personally never went back to her church and told the priest to go forth and multiply upon her death bed, but in a more colloquial fashion.
“You just haven’t opened your heart/mind enough to god.”
“You obviously haven’t studied the Bible enough.”
“How do you explain why we’re here?”
“Aren’t you afraid of going to Hell?”
“So everything in the Universe just happened by random chance?”
“Well if God isn’t responsible, what/who is?”
“What’s the point of living if there’s no God?”
“Why bother being a good person if there’s no eternal consequences?”
There’s the people who want to think they can set a trap for you.
They’ll start down road of the famous arguments we’ve all seen posted here. Cosmological, Teleological, Ontological….
There’s the fine folks who’ll try to insinuate you’re just flat-out uneducated. :roll:
Some will say you’re just too lazy to do the work required.
I’ve seen at least one suggest you’re actually lying to yourself and others about where you stand on the whole “god” thing.
Some will try to redefine words.
The funniest are those who insist they have definitive “proof”.
As if the word “faith” is no longer needed.
What other silly responses come to mind for some of you?
Do you not understand the concept of oblivion?
You can comfort yourself with the thought that you will not be aware of any of that.
Honestly! Who the **** ever gets really concerned about the death of the universe.
That needs explaining.
Gee...how convenient.
God is responsible for everything good.
The Devil is responsible for everything bad.
Ain't that nice.
Now provide some proof that the Devil killed that girl.
Just a reminder, bible quotes and links to any JW websites are not "proof".
From my point of view, as one who has lost many friends and family, there is no comfort, and as I stated earlier, words are useless, for mere words are empty and they mean nothing to one who is grieving.
Mother theresa comes to mind as she rejected god just before she died.
God's existence cannot be proved. I believe because I feel that I have been in His presence. I can't prove it, but I know it's so.
I have no doubt. But how have you found comfort in times of loss knowing that your existence and those of everyone you love is totally ephemeral? That the only place your loved ones will dwell upon their passing is in your memory but that the record of the lived experiences of their existence will disappear the moment you pass away...or suffer from some neurodegenerative disorder that causes you to lose your memories?
I have no doubt. But how have you found comfort in times of loss knowing that your existence and those of everyone you love is totally ephemeral? That the only place your loved ones will dwell upon their passing is in your memory but that the record of the lived experiences of their existence will disappear the moment you pass away...or suffer from some neurodegenerative disorder that causes you to lose your memories?
You asked her a question, and she replied. But in this post in response, you demonstrate why others shouldn't bother to answer your questions: You don't actually want to hear their answers.
"I will pray for you"
But try using that line to comfort someone who lost a child.
Honestly! Who the **** ever gets really concerned about the death of the universe.