jfuh said:
Everything for you christians is just right and wrong, black and white. Why must it be that what ever others are doing must be classified as right or wrong based on your opinion alone? Who are you to determine what is right or what is wrong for anyone else? Just because you could never do that hardly neccesitates that it to be wrong. I'm non-christian and I don't believe them to be wrong.
I have standerds, and i live up to them because i know them to be right. Again, I will explain...if people ask me fore advice, I am not going to sugar coat my beliefs for them, I will tell them what I think they should do, and they can take it or leave it. People know what I am like and they come to me because they know i don't play, i don't sugar coat anything because how are they going to grow or get better from the situation if they don't know the real deal?
If someone chooses to sleep around, that's thier own decision. There's no right or wrong about it. It's only a varied life style from you. Just because they may sleep around, what, does it make them a slut? Tell me the one thing that you feel is wrong about sleeping around? What makes it so wrong to you? It's a completely natural desire, just different people have a different out look and attitude about it.
Well how would you define slut? Its someone who sleeps around a lot. Now, I don't exclude them or make them feel inferior because they do, heck all girl school has the nick name 'whores on the hill', I am around them everyday, and I may not agree with what they are doing, but I love them and treat them the same.
It makes it wrong to me because why woulf you feel the need to give up your body to so many people? There must be some insecurity in there. Second, all teh diseases you can get with it that will effect your life imeasurable whether is curable or not. Third, i believe my purity is sacred, and is to be saved for the man I love, becasue that bond formed when you can tell your husband you saved yourself for him, is the best gift you can give your husband, ever.
I think that to some extent you are jealous of people who get to go around. You're envoius of them for your own lack of ability to do so. I admit it, I'm to some extent envious, not that that's how I'd want to be, but then who am I to tell them it's wrong?
Why would i be jealous if I don't have the desire to do so in the first place. I am secure with myself, i don't need to have guys all over me to feel good about myself. I don't have to have guys to want my body and have sex with me to feel needed and accepted. I have all teh security and love in Jesus Christ, and that satisfies me.
My friends know my stance and respect it(to a certain extent, i still get ridculed) , and when they come to me for advice about whatever situation there in, all I can say is 'I told you so' and then give them all the love and support they need. I may not agree with their lifestyle, but I will never turn them away, Jesus never turned anyone away, and that is whom i strive to be.