RJApple
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I do believe some social skills are being lost but it probably is not all because of the cell phones. We are losing a lot of the traditions of previous generations--sitting around the table at meals and sharing the events of the day, teaching table manners, teaching how to set a proper table even. We aren't teaching the basics of old fashioned etiquette--the written thank you note, how to compose a proper letter, or other basic good manners. Few people even use snail mail any more and hand writing is fast disappearing--they are suggesting that cursive writing should no longer be taught. The ability to just sit and have a conversation with another person seems to be suffering and young people seem to be uncomfortable in social settings more than they used to be. Or maybe it just seems that way.
Certainly the cell phone 'short hand' people who text a lot use is eroding spelling and grammar skills. And people who stare at their phones for hours at a time are missing an awful lot of what is going on about them and in the world.
But I suppose every generation disapproves of the changes in the next, but I hate to lose many of the values that made our American culture unique and pretty great.
This is perhaps a bit off-topic, but I agree wholeheartedly, especially with the point about hand writing. I think many people don't understand the virtue writing things, such as lecture-notes and rough-drafts for papers, by hand. It really helps with recalling information to write down notes and rough-drafts by hand. In fact, if I recall correctly, there was a study done not-to-long ago on a college class; some students took down notes by hand, others used computers, and the students who had handwritten notes consistently did better on their exams than those who had taken notes with a computer.