Pacridge
DP Veteran
Re: Enough Of The Rhetoric And Diatribe!
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Well said.
JustineCredible said:Look, gays/lesbians can and do have babies!
If you don't believe me, just ask my sixteen year old son!
I didn't adopt him, I didn't go through expensive invetro-fertilization.
No, insted I grew up in the midwest during the 1960's - 1980's. I was a victim of a social structure that taugh little girls that being gay was bad or sick. So, to seem "normal" I dated guys and eventually even married one. We had a child..and all the while I hoped beyond hope that somehow doing so would "cure" me of my being a lesbian.
I knew who I was but couldn't accept it.
Not until I found myself divorced and faced with the very real moral dilema of raising my son alone. I had to decide how I would raise him, whether to raise him to learn to lie about himself and hate himself or to raise him to be comfortable in his own skin and be honest.
To do that I had to set the example.
Luckily I was blessed with supportive and loving family and friends.
I found real love of my life, and for the past eight years we have raised an honest, well adjusted, happy, healthy, compassionate, hard working young man.
Not only CAN gays and lesbians become parents, we do at ever increasing rates!
What's even better is that we are raising children who are happy, healthy, well loved and well informed!
We adopt, foster, raise our own flesh and blood as well as children of family members. Our children are safe, well educated, honest, caring, NORMAL!
There is no statistics showing that gay and lesbian parents raise children to "become" gay or lesbian, no more so than do straight parents!
...what's even funnier about the whole thing...
I was raised by STRAIGHT PARENTS! Guess what?
I'm gay!
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Well said.