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You are so silly joko.
I was a reserve police officer.. so yes I have a little expertise on what " terrified women" do.
They do not move toward what terrifies them. She had to be told to stop twice.
But as a reserve police officer...I have also had to arrest rapists..perpetrators of sexual assaults and deal with sexual predators. You know what they don't do? Move away and TELL THEIR POTENTIAL VICTIMS TO STOP COMING CLOSER.
I know you don't reali this joko. But rape and sexual assault generally requires CLOSE PROXIMITY TO THE VICTIM!
Even for black men ...
Stop being silly joko.
And if you were talking to children about how to deal with big stray dogs barking and growling at them is to run - because every kid bitten by dogs ran and conclude therefore that is what children should do - what gets them bitten. You seem to have the same view that women facing potential assault is to act the way rape victims act.
What she did was exactly correct. She redefined who she was to him from what he wanted her to be: his prey to being a counter predator. He completely shifted from being on offense to being on defense when she refused to act like prey. He said he routinely terrifies people convincing them he is going to poison their dog if they don't submit to his threat-authority. Apparently previously others did act like his prey and victim.
It is notable that he did not run video to prove the violation nor to prove his threats. He did not record himself as the aggressor nor her the wrong-doer. He only started recording when he shifted from being the aggressor to going on the defense. The correctness of her actions is found in how he shifted from being on the offense to being on the defense.
I am posting from personal observation and also later from training women in self defense. A woman should not allow the situation to escalate step by step. Rather, she is to jump past the evolving aggressor-situation to go ape-sh!t crazy furiously and aggressively, redefining the situation and what she is to the aggressive man.
You posted how women who were assaulted acted. I am posting about the difference in behavior between women who are and women who are not.