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Given the poll for 2015 has shot up by 120 votes in just the last couple of hours when before 1985 held a slight advantage would appear to be more indicative of the particular age demographic using the forum at a certain time of day than anything else.
Hard to say, for many reasons.
No internet, only 3+1 TV networks in the US (ABC-NBC-CBS-PBS), a single 24 hour news channel, no treatment for HIV, Valley Girls, big hair. 1985 had a lot of downsides for many of the current generation.
However, the obesity rates were lower. Teens were more likely to be rollerskating at night instead of sitting at the X-box sucking down endless pizzas. Also we had a much more varied "Popular Music" genre, with everybody from Madonna and USA for Africa to Stevie Wonder, Lionel Richie as well as ZZ Top, Miami Sound Machine and Kenny Rogers all existing on the "Pop charts" at the same time. In 1985 you could literally listen to "Top 40" and hear every genre there was from instrumental and jazz to rock and country. That sure as hell never happens anymore.
Of course, we also had the Cold War. Anybody honestly trying to look back with pure nostalgia can not forget that. The Iron Curtain was still around, and we often lived in fear that "World War III" could start at almost any time. John Walker was arrested for spying. The Los Angeles Night Stalker murders.
But the Titanic was finally discovered, giving a future career to then 11 year old Leonardo DiCaprio.
But then you have the ultimate worst disaster.
Leonardo DiCaprio was the adopted kid on growing pains. I liked the show and the theme song. :lol:
That was a great show. That made half the girls in America fall in love with Kirk Cameron.
I think he always was.Didn't stop Kirk Cameron from becoming a complete religious lunatic, did it?
Leonardo DiCaprio was the adopted kid on growing pains. I liked the show and the theme song. :lol:
Growing Pains started out funny then got progressively worse, I never watched the Cosby Show and my all time favorite TV show is:At least he could get a job before, now he just kisses Ray Comfort's backside.
Growing Pains started out funny then got progressively worse, I never watched the Cosby Show and my all time favorite TV show is:
Ive got all the DVDs and I still watch them every now and then. When my son gets older I will make sure he is a Vice fan too.
Growing Pains started out funny then got progressively worse, I never watched the Cosby Show and my all time favorite TV show is:
Ive got all the DVDs and I still watch them every now and then. When my son gets older I will make sure he is a Vice fan too.
Just out of curiosity, why did you choose 1985? What's so significant about that date? Why not the volatile period of late 50s early 60s. That would be a better comparison in my opinion. Nothing really major happened in that year.
Miami Vice is the epitome of the 80's!
Don't you think there are environmental factors as to why they end up there? Are kids from the ghettos genetically predisposed to be lazy, to smoke outside a 7/11 and to not want to go to school? Or could there be some outside circumstance of their birth/life that is not their fault, which means they are pushed in that direction?
If there is an environmental factor at play, don't you think that society can fix that environmental factor? Would it not be a good idea to fix it? Rather than just abandon them?
This poll was running 50/50, then some tool non-member came and voted 100 times for 2015. Now the poll is worthless.
Mods really should do something about that. Why even have a poll? Only members should get to vote.
The mods know and are powerless to stop it they say.
It's unfortunate. I consider it Internet vandalism. Somebody with an axe to grind against this site is getting their kicks destroying other people's polls. Well I hope they're happy smh.
I think it's a mixture of nature and nurture, so to speak.
The environmental factor I blame the most is the lack of strong families. If you have a mother and father who care about your education, then you won't hang around the 7-11.
The problem is there isn't much that can be done to attack this issue. The answer lies in conservative values and the traditional family, however society seems to be pushing us further from that by the day. No government action can curb societal trends.
One thing that can be done, though, is to halt the liberal agenda to destroy the tradition family by electing and appointing conservative judges.
But yes, the environment plays a big role. If you look at African Americans in particular, during slavery, they were not allowed to marry and fathers/sons were usually split up from their families and sold to other plantations. They were also not allowed to learn how to read or get an education. They were bred like animals for their physical strength.
I think these things had a lasting impact on today's culture. Having massive public assistance and giveaway programs does nothing to help break this cycle, in fact it reinforces it
The only way I have found around it (and forum poster who misidentify themselves in polls) is to make them public in the general politics forum, oherwise this is what happens.
The pro of the traditional family is that children have strong role models from which to draw life experience, right? Firstly the traditional conservative single family house is not the only way that kids can draw from strong role models. Look, for example, at the cohousing movement that originated in practically socialist Denmark. So I don't necessarily think that is the end all be all answer. .
.What is important is a sense of community, which is being eroded in todays day and age. Without a sense of community, without a stake in society, one of the biggest incentives to contribute back to society is gone. When people looked back at the London riots, one of the main things pointed out was lack of ownership of houses of the rioters. No stake in society = a lack of respect towards it, which is what the 7/11 smoking kids suffer from.
There's obviously no simple and easy answer to this conundrum, but blaming the kids for their disenfranchisement towards a society that offers them little but blame and scorn is not the way to go.
It may not be the ONLY way, but it's the best proven model. And it so happens I am from Scandinavia, my dad grew up in Denmark, I was born in Sweden. The traditional family is alive and well in Scandinavia, perhaps more so than in the US. That is certainly the case for the lower classes, anyhow.
The difference is that few Scandinavians are religious, so they choose not to marry. However nuclear families, with a mother, father, grandparents, etc are the norm... even in lower class areas. They just live together out of wedlock, because, as it is seen in Scandinavia, marriage is a religious institution and they are not religious, therefore it's not needed.
You have to understand the culture if you are going to use them as an example.
I've never seen a credible study that shows that a "lack of community" leads to poor behavior.
I have seen plenty that demonstrate the benefits of being raised within a traditional family. I've seen studies that demonstrate that someone raised in a traditional, nuclear family is more likely to do well in school, more likely to graduate, less likely to end up in prison or commit a crime, and are statistically likely to earn more in their lifetime.
I've not seen anything like this with respect to a wider "community."
I'm not trying to suggest that having a pastor, or a teacher, or some other role model in a child's life isn't going to make a positive impact. It certainly is. But it's no substitute for having a mom and a dad that love you, and it's not something that has been proven we can replicate at a large scale.
You can't pay people to love and take care of kids. Money is not the issue. That's something that comes from the heart.
I'm not blaming kids, per se. It depends on their age. A 5 year old is less to blame than a 17 year old, obviously. I do expect teens to be held accountable for their actions. It's part of how they learn what is and isn't acceptable behavior.
That said, 90% of the blame does go on the parents. If you came at me and said we need to spend more money to bolster the traditional family, I would ask you what you had in mind and be in agreement, because then you're tackling the root of the issue. When you diffuse the responsibility to the greater "community," then I disagree. There is no substitute for a strong, loving family.
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